IG hauntings from the past
 

Still trying to get my life back on track in terms of getting busted with my past SB. My wifey knows MOST of it, but all of it. She found out already about my ex-SBs instagram account and whilst its locked and so far safe, I am dreading the day she might open it up just for day. Unfortunately she refuses to talk to me at this point and ignores my plea to delete certain pictures from that account for the safety of us both.

Ever had to deal with this or managed to force-delete an account (or hack an account even?). I shouldnt think this way, but this would be seriously the best for both sides. I mean I would even pay her to delete it.... just those pics in question.

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Just to understand if I got the order of things correctly

1. You have a SB that you are no longer on talking terms with
2. Your wife knows about this SB and her insta-account. But shes does not know the full extent of things
3. The SB Insta-account holds intimate pictures of you and her. You are afraid that one day she makes it public and your wife can see.
4. You want to delete the pictures from the insta-account

You need to start with the source (SB) and get her on your side. Your only option is to have the SB delete it herself. Find a way to coax her out and have her delete the pictures using a mix of goodwill, charm and cash if needed. Forget about hacking the account - she would have pictures elsewhere and this would make her even more mad making her do stupid actions like messaging your wife which would truly open Pandora's box. Explain to her like a mature adult and be rational and non-emotional about things.

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I don't think its a good idea to pay her off. She'll know that you're desperate enough to fork out money to make this issue go away, so what's to stop her from keeping copies of those pictures elsewhere and blackmailing you somewhere down the line? I'm not saying she is such a person, but you'll never know what people would do for money if they are forced into a corner.

The way I see it, there are two options to consider. Firstly, you can come clean to your wife about the affair. It sounds counter-intuitive but seriously man - no more stress, and your ex doesn't have a hold over you any more. Also, you'll have a clean karmic slate and can start to mend the relationship with your wife in a meaningful manner. However, the drawbacks of honesty is that if your wife doesn't forgive you, be prepared to be subjected to the Women's Charter.

The second option would be to convince your ex that the existence of those pics could result in mutually assured destruction. Eventually, she would want to settle down with a proper partner of her own, and having those pictures floating around may not be ideal for her as well. Use every ounce of persuasion (without appearing too pushy or desperate) you can muster to make her understand that it would be in everyone's best interest for those photographs to disappear for good.

Whatever happens, you gotta understand that this is just your past catching up with you, and it is now time to pay the piper.

Good luck.

Re: IG hauntings from the past
 

Bro, why don't you threaten her back. Threaten If she release your pic. You will release her identify as well, release her identify in SBF or other platform. Lets she how much she willing to lose

Re: IG hauntings from the past
 

Bad advice. You want TS to go down for doxxing?