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Please share your stories. How much do u tolerate , before you decide to end a relationship?

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I don't tolerate anything. If it's not working I call it a day and walk away. There's no point prolonging the suffering.

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Easier if u give us your scenario then we can apply the relevant template.

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Should renamed this thread Aunt Agony.

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I used to tolerate when i am young and green. That is until i realized that you must love yourself first before you love others. So i no longer tolerate nonsense or shit and learn to walk away. I have been a much happier person since then. :p:D:p

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Im not sure how to share... Too many things happened... and i have just been crying way too much, till i am numb and choose to close both eyes.... I think it is very unhealthy for myself , mentally and emotionally.... So just wondering when and what is the situation to call it a day...

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Companionship shd be abt adding value to each other's lives. It must never be abt misery. Take a 2 week cooling off period and keep yourself busy meeting others. Once u hv regained your self worth, can u hv an objective assemnent

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Ya , will try the cooling period.... quite sure its not a good idea to meet new people...

When you know that hormones have nothing to do with the misery and there is no commitment (i.e. Children) to hold you back; that is the time to walk away

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I recommend you walk off. I cry for nobody except my mom, and you should too.

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@Xyberduke What do u mean? The hormones and misery part....

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It's sad when the person who shares ur bed, suddenly feels like a stranger.... we don't even talk anymore....

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We get sick of talking to you too. One month in and despite several requests to find out whats wrong, you choose to reply without replying. No prize for guessing who is at fault.

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if you have to cry/emo so much, then it's better to cut off contact completely and stay single for a while till you learn to self-respect

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require courage to cut it off, dun let emotion choke your neck, end of the day you are in the losing end in this situation. Since you can't change the situation, is up to you to choose a positive outcome for yourself.. various paths are always lay out, choose wisely.