wife and mistress
 

Hi bros... i in deep shit now and need kind expertise.
I am married with 3 kids... and met a gal 5 years younger.
She knew i have my family and we go out together and have plenty sex, as my wife seldom gives me...

Now that i want to end this relationship with her as i realised how much i love my family after my parent passed away.... i don't want my family to break up because of her... and i wish to end this..

I talked nicely to her but she refuses to let go...
She said she will let go if she approach my wife and tell her all about us having sex and etc.... i told her to pls let me go and we end peacefully but she refuses and keeps threatening me..

I am really lost.... i can't afford to lose my family... i really want to get rid of her... i know it was my fault.. but i can't tell my wife this... she sure will file for divorce... my kids are innocent... i do not wish them to suffer because of this stupid fault of mine..

Can any kind bros pls help and advice me what to do?

I don't know who to turn to and ask... i am living day by day in hell...
Sometime i just wish to end my life and die... but my loans will be burden to my family... i don't want them to suffer because of my wrong doing

Thank you bros...

Re: wife and mistress
 

From malaysia and works in accounting firm in sg.

She knows where i stay and where my wife works....

She threaten to tell her all about us, history till now..... if i want to leave her....

Pls tell me what to do.......... everyday i see my kids, i live in hell and regrets... they are innocent...... and i dont want to this to happen....

Re: wife and mistress
 

cannot cut off like that. she will be in a shock.threaten all sorts of things like jump down . cut wrist etc. just take your time to reply messages. say u busy if she wants to meet.

give lots of excuses. or pretend say u cannot stand already esp after your close one past away.. not in the mood for these things. .. or premature ejaculation or cannot satisfy her anymore... meet for sex... also cannot do .. be together for what...hope she understands

say your finances currently held tightly by your wife... cannot give her anything.. she is still young can look for better man. your heart not with her do keep your body but cannot keep your soul what for

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Thanks bro... i did not just cut off like that, in fact i sweet talk to her to split peacefully.
She is crazy... she is ok to let go, but she said if let go, she will approach and tell my wife...
This is something i am trying not to provoke her...
I told her all the same, she still young, find someone else better... as she keeps saying i so bad and con her to bed.... she ok to let go, but wont give up without a fight...
She said if cant be with me, she wont want me to have a happy family life...

I really lost..... anything else i can do? I need my family.... i know i at fault to mess with her until this stage....

Wah vicious woman. Just keep ignoring bochap her. Ignore her calls n messages.

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U can't ignoring her like that, later burst all the "lava" will be everywhere.

Maybe still continue but stay low......unless you are making her for sex. If not, cool down the relationship, sometimes give her cold shoulder or give her warm cum...when things get cool off, she might just back off.

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Bro.... how to ignore....
She will push me to death.....

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Why not introduce her to another bro who can take care of her better? Maybe some bros who can make he cum multiple times will make her fall out of love with you.:D

Go JB. Burn passport and work pass. After that act blur. Enjoy peace for 2 weeks

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I been to her work place before... she living in jb.

Any other solutions bros? I really dont know how...

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:(
Sigh....... how????

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No.... maybe some see before... but they dont know our relationship...

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I can walk into her office... not with security guard..

Do you have a solution bro?

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How about you remove all existence of yourself from her phone/social media/photos etc and just keep denying that you had something with her in the past?

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I had thought of this... but she knows where my wife works and knows her social media account... for example, in IG, u can still DM someone even though they are not following one another....

Unless i go and deactivate her IG account, but that could not completely stop her from approaching my wife...

PLEASE ... HELP... ME....