Just a word of advice
 

I've been thinking for awhile if I should make this post and if I should talk about what happened to me . Hesitated at first but then again , I told myself what more do I have to lose ?

And so the story goes . I joined a swingers group that organized get together , orgies for like minded people and people who shared the interest . I mean who's not horny nowadays . It was fun at first , the meet ups , drinks with friends , , the sex .

But then the group started to become more exclusive , they had their little cliques where they would gossip about the others and even amongst that , there were smaller groups . The privileged ones . These were the ones who ruled the group , who decided who could or could not join in the activities .

And its was because of the few that many of the bystanders got implicated when our details were shared online in this forum . They were hostile to new groupies , especially mean to males who first joined . I guess they went too far on someone and he/she /they hot back by posting detailsand pictures of the group and its members here .

I was foolish enough to have posted my facial pictures online but lucky enough to not have shown anything more revealing . All this while , the group admins never once thought that they were in the wrong .They felt like they were protecting their flock . There were others who joined in the fray , probably wanting to be heroes and only made it worse .

I was swamped with friend requests from total strangers and as of last week I have since deleted my profiles and accounts , I left the group quietly without fanfare . This is my last mention of anything to do with that group . I wish to move on with my life and take the experience as just something I jumped into without thinking of the consequences .

Thankfully it hasnt spread beyond a few forums but I shudder to think what will happen if it does . I only have myself to blame for my foolishness and naiveté .

This is a gentle warning to those of you who are thinking of joining such a group , be careful what you share and whom you share it with . The world is not all butteflies and rainbows .

To those whom I called friends and some whom I still regard as a friend who were in that group , think hard about what you want , be safe and god bless .

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Poor thing. Guess it's a risk that is real. It even happens with couples what more a group.... Anyways good piece of advise to anyone and everyone....

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Good advice ..... and trust no one :D

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be prepared to face the consequences when engaging in sexual activities with strangers .. if in group more risk ..

Thanks TS for the insides and advice :D

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And you never know if there are spy cams hidden filming the entire gangbang.

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Good for TS, move on ahead...

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Thanks for the advices.
Was asked by someone in here to give my face pics to him too. Luckily i didnt give though i only meet him once. He asked me to trust him but i find it suspicious. Was scammed by someone in here before.
Never ever send or give people your face pics.
Becos u wont know what troubles/problems u may exposed yourself to.

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Gone are the days when joining orgy parties were just good fun after that done bye bye no trouble.. not sure if there still are anymore of these parties around. Would love to reignite the fire.. hahaha

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Yup true that.
That is why no-strings-attached and mutual respect are important factors.

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good advise good luck in your future experience :D

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Thanks ts for sharing, and have a great weekend :D

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So you're female ah??

Any pic to show?? No need face la :o

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In the first place, this kind of thing is wrong in the society/moral eyes. It is like trying to retrieve honey from beehive of course you will be risk getting sting by bees.

As long you never have your full nude pictures being taken or send to them. Then you will still be safe.

Anything as long involving humans, sure will have issues. Some will want to take full control of the entire group, while getting all the sex and even money all for themselves. Others might be harmlessly boasting about the group and etc which might lead to the disband of the group.

Be careful at all times and find the right group. Then you will be safe and having fun at the same time.

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How abt sharing the forum name. If u are real inside there or just trying to be a victim where u are the person who's doing it, By just writing and saying it shows no prove.
Anyway In cyber world, no one point at u to post pic, and no one force u to join. So bare all consequences and do not put blame to anyone. Who knows might be ur own attitude that consider.

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Sorry to hear. It's sad when a group you thought you're close to turns on you.