Not all the gals are like that la.
I have a gf did helped her bf to settle his debts and pay the bills. But he didn't worked and just asked her $. Even we all persuaded her, she still helped him until she broke too. Luckily they broke off finally.
Mi....... I think I was blind b4 too.
Anyway, I still can found some gals would help their lovers when they in trouble too.