[insanea]

TS, i was once in your position before. You are not alone.
What i did was to break out of my comfort zone, hanging out in singles event, meeting new people. From there one, i got to know a few friendly people that share their experiences and advices. Here are a few that might help you.
1. Be confident! Most impt rule. Dont stammer, say it like you mean it. Express some sincererity in your words. Girls like to hear your honest opinion.
2. Give her undivided attention when speaking to her. Do not look around, just focus on her eyes. If you are shy, just look her nose bridge. Maintain that connection and it is one step closer to victory.
These are some helpful tips, hope it is useful to you.