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Originally Posted by SpikeTitan
I would say just be very careful and draw clear boundaries with the girls. The last thing you want is them falling for you and sticking to you like glue which subsequently may be difficult to shake off. That's the point where your partner will start to notice a difference in your behaviour.
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It happened quite frequently. But I would tell them straight up I don't have feelings for them. Some would cry, some would scold me, but all ended up stickier than before.
But there's 1 easy way to shake them off - just tell them you are fucking other girls. it worked for me.
Didn't meant to tell them but thought I would be honest. guess there's a limit they can accept.
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Originally Posted by SocialCircle
Do u have any psychological issue when u make love to your partner and also other gals?
When u kiss your partner will u think of the other person?
I can’t shake this psychology barrier as it comes and go.
How do u shake this off?
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No psychological issue. when i make love with my partner, i do it passionately. with other girls, it's not making love, it's having the thrill of fucking them/owning them.
for me, i love my partner wholeheartedly. i'm excited to see her every time... so i guess you would need to rekindle the love for her.
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Originally Posted by Capricorn69
Nowadays fucking around is normal. Everybody doing it including married men  |
just having the guilt of fucking around vs committing wholeheartedly (which i did before).
the heart wants what it wants, the brain also wants what it wants.
hard to manage this.