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Originally Posted by peanodood1337
Thanks for the bump.
Well, because the rules of the arrangement are different, depending on the couple. There is no specific definition, it all depends on what people are comfortable with getting into.
Yes, there are "pay and fuck" arrangements without further obligations. No dates, full discretion, meet-ups in hotels, no other expectations. To me, this is no different from hiring the same prostitute several times a month. Which is not what I'm looking for. But for other people who are married and looking to fool around outside, this works for them. No judgment here - "willing buyer willing seller".
In the current arrangement I have, she wanted not to be seen as an SB, but a girlfriend who needs financial assistance. So we do bf/gf things. Movie dates, Netflix and chill at my place. Walking the dog together. Stuff like that. Naturally, this includes a fancy dinner for Valentine's Day, which if I may add she agreed to with enthusiasm in advance.
Suffice to say, she claimed to be unable to meet. And is not even willing to meet below her place for me to pass her a gift. I gave her no pressure to do so and just said "ok". But in my head, especially since this is not the first time something like that happened, she is no longer fulfilling the terms of our arrangement.
Which is why I'm putting myself out here again, as well as reactivating all my previously deleted dating apps.
Thank you for the questions, hope this clarifies.
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thanks for the clarifications
Can i say Married man looking more for fuck and pay while single man looking for quasi gf with benefits ?
Usually married man dun have time for the SB like valentine day, usually most of their time is with their wife and family.. So i was just wondering...
So ur SB is more like a quasi gf with benefits i think but i sense ur SB may be attached already?
So do u mind ur SB having bf? haha..
if that is the case, since u are single, u can have many SBs ma hahaha..
Then for married man, since looking for fuck and pay, they dun mind the SB having a bf right?
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