[CyberSun]

Originally Posted by Baddecisions

Just sharing my personal account - started visiting MLs when I was single. After that, got attached and married and urge died down. However, after a while, urge came back even though I share a good sex life and intimacy with my partner.

End of the day, it is up to you to decide what you can live with. Some people have guilt, some people no guilt. Some people have devotion, some people no devotion. Some think cheonging is not mutually exclusive to being a family man, as long as your family is still safe and you don't neglect. For me, I have come to terms that this is who I am and the urge will always be there. I stick to only MLs and HJs because I don't want to risk disease and put my partner at risk. Of course, end of day, my priority is still family and if my habits end up putting them at risk one day, then I will stop. For now, journey continues...

I agree too on this