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Originally Posted by Oscar1325
Proof that she is pregnant yes. As my kid, no but i trust her cause the timeline make sense and she is really quite into me so i dont think she will cheat. She is not FL or anything.
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seriously, FL or not, nobody will know. Many thai girls also work as occasional FL behind their bfs' backs, to make money to pay for the bf's drinking / gambling / drug expenses. Most FLs are actually occasional FLs, not full time regular FLs. They only do it when they have money issues.
since you dont want to have to be transferring her money every month for life, you can explore paying her just 1 lump sum and fuck off from her forever. What she does with the money is her problem. If she chose to spend it all within a few months, she has only herself to blame. Let her know she will have almost no life when she needs to take care of a kid by herself and its going to be very difficult (infants fall sick easily) + social stigma. Did she go and do some checks to make sure the baby inside is going to be born like a normal kid (not deformed or retarded, etc)? Good way for her to get help is to move the kid to her parents' home and let them look after the kid whille she can continue her life in bkk either to work and/or study. She will also have to transfer some money every month to help cover the expenses of looking after the kid, or she can choose to just pass the lump sum you pay to her parents.
of course the alternative is to play bastard like most young men do. Just ignore, cut off all contact and move on. Consider the idea of changing your name as well (the name which is known to her).