Re: Love out of SEX?
Hmmm very interesting questions, but seriously, though sex and love do go together, they can also exist individually. Nowadays, the question of love is also something that not many people really know or understand:
Q1) Would you stay with your partner if the sex wasn't good?
Why not. If you truly love someone, just to see her smile, just to see her happy face is the greatest orgasm you can have. Thats what you call true love mah... You want to love... not give hor... and all you ask is for her to be happy
Q2) Would you stay with your partner if you didn't love them but the sex was great?
Again why not? Some people stay together because the sex is so mind blowing that they do not have to do anything else. But the question is... if a relationship is based only on sex, then what will happen when we get older, less pretty or less appealing to the other party? What I would say is good sex through all ages.
Q3) Would you stay with a partner who didn't love you if you had great sex?
Ask you back... What happened to the couples who stay together even though they were actually forced or pushed to marry? Example? Match made marriage, shotgun marriage and so on? Perhaps they keot on having sex, but I think that the couples just found another reason to be together.
So both, in a utopia world will co-exist. But a relationship is made up of so many other things. It is like looks, money, status and so on... If they are gone, where are you and what do you have left? But if you have a relationship based on love, it will be forever and it will last.
I spend hours..... everyday.... talking to my wife... Of course we have sex often and it is great... But if we were to look back and ask ourselves what we share together?... It is communication.... so love to me is more important.
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