I got to know I am Genital herpes positive on 14 Feb 2008, valentine's day.
My heart was smashed into pieces and I almost cried in the DSC counsellor's room. Till now I am still puzzled when and how I got it.
Let me briefly tell u my limited cheonging experience.
20.09.2006 PRC Jiang Hong. BBBJ but quick capped penetration.
http://sbfsg.net/welcome...ml#post1659313
06.10.2006 PRC Xiao Ye. Protected BJ and quick capped penetration.
http://sbfsg.net/welcome...ml#post1684284
15.11.2006. OKT's Thai gal. 2 times capped BJ.
06.01.2007. PRC. Protected BJ.
12.02.2007. PRC. Xiao Yu. Protected BJ.
http://sbfsg.net/welcome...ml#post1857455
01.03.2007. RTF. PRC Jiang Hong. (See above)
03.05.2007. PRC. Protected BJ.
12.06.2007. Singapore FL. Jessy.
http://sbfsg.net/welcome...ml#post2092610
10.10.2007 PRC. groin massage & handjob.
http://sbfsg.net/welcome...ml#post2321578
For her , I remember that she did not wash her hands before starting groin massage on me and she just had finished with another customer.
Not tried any one since then.
I went to DSC for Oral & Genital Herpes tests on
30 Oct 2007 since have time. Positive for Oral but
negative for Genital. Thought very heng.
Late
Jan or early Feb 2008, I had pimples on my chest, arms, waist and penis.
As I have atopic dementatis (sensitive skin problem) and out-break often, I though nothing of it. I though my new tremendous work stress triggered them.
On 4 Feb 2008, I had unprotected oral and virginal sex with wife first before using Durex Performa. The next morning, my penis was itchy and I discovered 4 pimples near the base of my penis. More pimples on the skin near the head. I thought I am allergic to local anaesthesia in Durex performa. How CNY was close I thought better to a check up at DSC. Causasian doc said could be Herpes or could be atopic dementatis so better to do a culture test. So it do.
As I know my wife would want sex on Valentine's day, I called DSC and rushed down to get result. Was told to see counsellor. Was told positive for Genital Herpes!!!!!!!!
My last commercial sex - protected oral sex was in June 2006 and my Oct 2007 blood test for genital Herpes was NEGATIVE.
Long enough for window period to be over, isn't it? In between only had groin massage & HJ and sex with wife. What went wrong? can groin massage & handjob transmit Genital Herpes?
Can anyone enlighten me?
As my last sex with wife was on 4 Feb 2008 and I already had 2 pimples on my dick, is my wife likely to get genital herpes from me since she did bbbj and i did her raw before putting condom?
I am extremely worried as she had said that if I fooled around, she will divorce me and take the 2 kids way.
I rejected her sexual advance on 15 Feb 2008 morning and I am still suffering from my primary infection. I don't know for how long I can avoid her...
Before my primary attack started, i hand high anxiety and high stress month and I experienced body ache and flu. That could be the reason of the trigger.
I just read that men usually get 4 to 6 recurrent attacks a year and will decrease as years go by. I have to suffer till I die.
I am going to AFA to do HIV test next week. If thing goes wrong, I won't know how to face my wife and kids. I may commit suicide.
To new cheongers, quit commercial sex.