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Old 16-09-2020, 05:48 PM
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Originally Posted by fallen11 View Post
well cant be helped la
damage already done, just try to control the damage.
he got access to the kids one day a week.
other days he also no time so sometimes its not all curse but some blessing. Imagine divorced dad all the free time being used on the kids. No more own life also. No time find new gf, no time go out with old friends. Then eventually lost all the friends 1 by 1.
Now he found a nice local gf (not chio but very nice person the gf). She's much higher income than him (i would say at least double his monthly income), doesnt mind him being a divorcee with kids, doesnt mind him being piled with debts to pay either. She doesnt expect him to provide her anything financially.
Yes he got sucked dry dry by ex wife before divorce. But at least he can still stand up with feet again given a few years to clear his debt, rather than travel down the bottomless pit path with the ex wife.
dis one i agree. his gd fortune to find a nice woman sticking with him.