TS - I am not sure if there was even a r/s to start with to be very frank. It seems to be a one way infatuation on your end towards her. There is perfectly normal as you have indicated that she is a high-class escort and probably is a ravishing beauty.
Our small head dictates over the big one and we think we have a chance at a actual relationship with them. The reality is that women of such attractiveness is wayyyyy out of the league of the average joe here. They shower attention on us due to the almighty dollar and not because we are Andy Laus. You seem to be of a higher calibre being based in the US and all (are you local SG?) but she meets many successful and rich man in her line of work. We make the mistake that they are unhappy in their job and try to be a white knight to save them from their fate of a WL. As a high class escort - they are raking in the $$$. They do not need someone to save them, that's the reality. A relationship that starts on the basis of $$$ is on rocky foundation - success stories are few and far between. Consider it a lesson learnt and a few thousand USD saved.
You had your fun