[desmondquek]

Possible qns to ask.

How would the child feel if he knows that mom is a FL?

How would you feel if your wife knows about the situation?

How would you feel if the window period for an abortion is over?

Are you fine with rearing the fl and child for at least a decade?

Can the FL provide a good and conducive environment for the child? Away from bad influence?

What is your assessment of the fl's IQ? The baby's intelligence takes after its mother. Would the child lose out in our competitive society? In addition to the potential self-esteem issues after knowing mom is an fl?

If you still feel it's okay after answering these questions, then go for DNA test and accept responsibility thereafter lo. If not, abortion / adoption / orphanage (I'm not sure about the latter two).