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Old 12-10-2019, 11:05 PM
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Re: Dilemma and need advice

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Originally Posted by submarine View Post
Thanks guys and gals for all the advice here.

My biggest point is my current gf's lack of sex drive. She is just not very interested in it. I think sexual compatibility is very important in a relationship, and I don't know why I took 4 years before really thinking very hard about it.

Perhaps I was in the comfort zone during these 4 years and I thought she would change for the better (sexually) after marriage. We discussed deeply about this before, about my wishes and how I hope we can try to mutually satisfy one another. However, the more I think about it, the more I conclude that things won't improve.

This is one of life's most difficult decisions
If u think ur current gf will change... Then think again... She also want u to change to be having less sex drive 😂.

So never think they will change.. I see too many only change from bad to worst...

Think properly before u continue the relationship or if u want to change...

I really dun want see people suffer after marriage and in the end divorce...