[candeo_88]

Well said. Up you bro...

Originally Posted by quiddi

The main purpose of these ladies coming here are to make money. They spend a lump sum to come here, some have to borrow and are in debt.
人不为己，天柱地灭。
If a carrot guy comes along and they do not like the guy then of cos they will try to chop carrot. Even if you manage to become friend with them, you will find that if u both go out you will be paying for most of the things.
If you get pass that and become real friends then maybe sometime she pays for the meal.
But at the end of the day. 人之初，性本善。have faith in human. We will all always choose to 善待自己 first. Yet when others do it they are selfish.
Why we put up with lousy bosses and smile when kena scolded? Stil have to suck up to them? As long as we are paid enough, we will do it.
It's good to know the motivation behind people's action, then it's easier to accept and move on. It is also good to know our own motivation behind our own actions. Think about it and see if you want to continue or stop.