Personally; sorry to being blunt now, i think you are seeking attention from us
You know the do's & dont's from the 2nd post when bro Alan gave you the thumbs up to go ahead - but it seems you already know your experience is not true but you are just seeking attention.
If i am wrong & it really did happen & you are in dilema now, what i can see is she really loves you and want to spend her lifetime with you only - pls be responsible to her & love her as much as she loves you - money is secondary - it should not be taken into account when love arises
Let us know the updates (of course if its true)