Something wrong somewhere...

[BscBMD997]

I married my wife back in 2009.

I only make love to her like...1~3 times and that was it. Furthermore, I will get backache after that. (think lack of exercise).

I dont know since when, I dont have that urge anymore. I tend to play more online games then talking to her. I did think that it was due to extensive gaming which neglected her. When i faced her...i just have nothing to say.

I know she is trying to keep things alive. And whenever she mentioned she wants to start a family, I would just say "ok". But that just end with that "ok"
. And I would continue playing my games and she would be asleep.

My life is very routine...eat, sleep, work, play games. I feel like a hermit these days. Now more than ever since my dad passed on and me and my wife are the only 2 taking care of elderly mother.

I wanted very much to bring all for oversea trip. But my mother doesnt want to go. The trip was actually booked by my wife as she has never been there.

I have tried asking my mother why she didnt want to join us. Her answer is "I would be lonely in my hotel room. Dad used to be around which is the difference."

I know what she meant....I have also considered that she would be lonely at home for 2 weeks straight. She did say that my uncle is coming over to stay while we are away. But i m still "bu fang xin".

This trip was actually suggested by my wife. She claimed that if we dont go this yr, next yr will be more busy because she really wanted to have a child.

Again, i was like..."kk.."

I feel that something is wrong somewhere. I dont know where..

Am i turning into a monk? I feel that my sexual desire is so damn low as compared to many SBF's people i read here.

Haiz....sorry for boring you guys/gals.

[babyckh]

married for only 2 years and you were already tired of it?...

Unless you are thinking of divorcing with her tomorrow, stop your online gaming and spend more time with her.

Otherwise, you shouldn't be married in the first place.

[alan0338]

wat game so nice huh?

[BscBMD997]

hooked on online gaming because...the thrill and anxiety of killing 1 or mass of players from the other side of earth with a bunch of good friends.

[Xgenre]

You have a wonderful wife and you know it. Most girls would have given up on you a long time ago. Sex 1-3 times over the past 2 years? 1-3 times and you can't really remember the actual number? It's time to grow up and be fair to her. She probably feels shitty that you don't find her attractive as a woman (1-3 times of sex only since 2009). You made things worse by choosing to spend most of your time on computer games and not on her. When she tries to organise a getaway, you let worries about your mum spoil the travel plans (even though mum is taken care of by uncle.)

She's really never your first priority in your life in anyway is it? Why marry her? If this is the way she lives her life till death do us part, I think a lot of us will feel very sorry for her. I feel the something wrong somewhere is inside your head. I can't see what fault she has done to deserve all these. If she ever leaves you for another man, I guess you will regret for the rest of your life.

Why not limit your gaming hours to a fixed time period per week so that you can spend more time with her? You got low sex drive... means what? You don't get hard or you don't enjoy cumming? Maybe you should see a doctor to rule out other underlying health conditions. Your wife is very poor thing but it's still not too late to cherish her, thankfully.

[BscBMD997]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

You have a wonderful wife and you know it. Most girls would have given up on you a long time ago. Sex 1-3 times over the past 2 years? 1-3 times and you can't really remember the actual number? It's time to grow up and be fair to her. She probably feels shitty that you don't find her attractive as a woman (1-3 times of sex only since 2009). You made things worse by choosing to spend most of your time on computer games and not on her. When she tries to organise a getaway, you let worries about your mum spoil the travel plans (even though mum is taken care of by uncle.)

She's really never your first priority in your life in anyway is it? Why marry her? If this is the way she lives her life till death do us part, I think a lot of us will feel very sorry for her. I feel the something wrong somewhere is inside your head. I can't see what fault she has done to deserve all these. If she ever leaves you for another man, I guess you will regret for the rest of your life.

Why not limit your gaming hours to a fixed time period per week so that you can spend more time with her? You got low sex drive... means what? You don't get hard or you don't enjoy cumming? Maybe you should see a doctor to rule out other underlying health conditions. Your wife is very poor thing but it's still not too late to cherish her, thankfully.

Thank you. You are right.

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by BscBMD997

Thank you. You are right.

Was reading your history of posts. Seems like you like creampie a lot. I think your wife will wonder if you have other women outside from time to time. Ever thought of doing an activity with her, like learning a dance, playing a sport together, going for weekly walks, volunteering at animal shelters? Wrose come to worse, get her addicted to online gaming as well. That worked for a friend. His wedding have a table of online gamers that they had never met. Guest list all online nicks... somemore the gamers purposely flew down to attend their wedding dinner.

Good luck ah. Have a dragon baby ok?

[ATAP]

Seeing you here and seeing your posts seems like you still have sex craves. Like that how to be a monk? Maybe play computer sex games then when you get hot, you will find your wife.

[BscBMD997]

if there is no SBF forums..i also dont know how to keep my "desire" up.

regarding having women outside....sorry i have none.

I happened to be those whom see gals like..."wah pretty" then turn around...and forget everything.

I came here, wrote this, with the intention of seeking advices because i know something is wrong with me. Bros n sis who pointed out what my problem(s) is/are, i thank you.

I will try to make it up to my wife.

[yangguo]

Bro TS, maybe you should try to watch more porno instead of playing online game.

That may help you to enhance your sexual drive.

[sibaysong4u]

Originally Posted by BscBMD997

Am i turning into a monk? I feel that my sexual desire is so damn low as compared to many SBF's people i read here..

Dun worri,you wont turn into monk cos monk cannot surf SBF

[prccuntlover]

Ok
3 yr 3 x
Ave 1/ yr???

Play online game?which one?override love making?

Surf sbf?into fantasy?

You sleep with your wife?
Me got hottie next to me will do only the next natural thing..f her lah

You don't have a problem you have a BIG problem
1) go see a sex psychiatrist
2) go GL, see can rekindle your sex drive
3) yes, STOP your gaming

Just curious

1) how pretty your wife... Look body
2) how your wife than you one???

[Greatking]

For your information, if you know you are addicted to gaming, you are not too addicted and can be saved.

Scientists said that online gaming will impair your EQs and so, your desire for life dropped. Stop for a while and see. Of cos... hide your comp far far away

[superduker1]

Originally Posted by sibaysong4u

Dun worri,you wont turn into monk cos monk cannot surf SBF

Lolx...bro, I can't be sure of that though... Oops... =p

[superduker1]

TS bro, my point of view is that maybe something happened to cause you to stop feeling intimating with your wife? 心理障碍? Maybe you could think back the sweet moments both of you had together in the past? Well, you got to at least try to get that feeling back slowly.

If not, I think see doctor for help liao and should see together with wife, you got to let her know the problem too. 2years untouched...very long wo... You also dunno how serious her mind barrier is now lo..

Hope it helps. =)