Agreed that if any woman can miss you dearly when you are not around even for a day, week or month then think guy is very successful.
A relationship requires strong bonding and passion to keep the flames growing. Life is short and flames shorter. Whatever it is just keep the flame strong.
Another thing guy should really fall in love and if any guy fell in love then he LOST.
Contradicting concept but a reality in life.
Have a fine day,
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Originally Posted by warbird
Good morning!
I hv new revelations n understandings on the important subject of man-woman RS. These hv come abt partly from readings n researching n partly from my personl experiences. There r not really new but I'll give a brief summary here.
The biggest mistake we men make is to think that girls r primarily attracted to the same thing as men: Good looks n sexy body.
Additionally, what many pretty SYTs say they want in a man is completely different from what their subconscious minds want. They r most attracted to a man's masculine character n emotional control/self mastery.
And if you can get them to constantly think abt YOU when you're NOT around,you can make them fall for u, regardless of ur looks, height, weight, age, financial resources, status, educational level, ethnicity, nationality, etc. To make them constantly thinking abt u, you need to be uniquely different from all the men she has ever met. And you should evoke strong emotions in her, both positive n negativs...she must be confused, uncertain, yet hopeful...flip the sexual switch n she will chase u. You will surely fail if you behave like a "nice guy" or "perfect gentleman."
There r startegies known as "The Mind Scrambler" n "Hate-Love-Switch."
Initially, all you need is a chance to meet them face to face, even if it's for only 30 seconds.
But to keep that infatuation/love going, you must establish a sexual RS w/ them n be able to give them repeated PVOs. Sorry, there is no substitute for this.
BTW, I'm now certain that a healthy n pretty woman has a stronger sexual urge n needs than an average man. She plays hard to get because she only wants to be fxxked by the right MAN, usually in the context of a long term RS. KM (the cute 21 yo Sichuan gal) actually hinted at this last week. We hv been brutally honest w/ each other. Previouly, only a GF n a mistress hv openly expressed their desires to hv more frequent n wilder sex.
Is great to state terms clearly and written if possible.
I agreed that take it or leave it. always note if gal refused then is her loss and not yours.
Play mind games and gal too. If the gal has a better offer then you are nowhere in place.
Keep the mind games ging and sure a winning fomula.
Have a fine day,
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Originally Posted by warbird
Good morning!
A few days ago, bro PK sent me a PM:
I told him that I'll post the answer here as many bros hv asked the same question.
Bro PK,
Terms are always negotiable. I assume that you're referring to girls who r already in SG.
Firstly, never appear to be too eager. Secondly, before u make an offer to BY any girl, you must qualify her n state ur requirements.
A frequent question from girls: What do u look for in a 女朋友，情人？ I'll state my criteria in terms of looks n physical attributes. Then I'll stress the single most important condition: Her pussy must be mine exlusively during the BY period. If it's for more than 3 months, I expect to do her raw, after a series of tests, including an exam at KK. Last but not least, my 女朋友，情人 must be 乖顺 and have 诚信.
Next I'll outline my monthly allowance. Take it or leave it.
For non-KTV girls, monthly allowance ranges from 2K to 10K n up a month, sometimes plus rental. For KTV girls, if she doesn't work, from 5K to 20K n up. There may be rental n other fringe benefits. If she continues to work, from 2k to 10K n up...
Remember that everything is subject to negotiation.
In China, you can cut the allowance by more than half, depending on the city/province. But some models/actresses may want an arm n a leg hahaha...
Agreed that if any woman can miss you dearly when you are not around even for a day, week or month then think guy is very successful.
A relationship requires strong bonding and passion to keep the flames growing. Life is short and flames shorter. Whatever it is just keep the flame strong.
Another thing guy should really fall in love and if any guy fell in love then he LOST.
I was smiling and reading the article below with great interest.
I think will not watch porn and tried to find more gfs/mistresses.
Thank you once again
Happy ending.
Bro, tks.
Waching too much porn may shrink the brain and cause ED.
Believe me, when you hv so many girls of your type wanting to fuck you, you won't hv time for porn.
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Originally Posted by indulgent
Great article below.
yes, I hope to have more gals fall in love with me.
Hope have more happy ending.
Cheers.
Bro,
You don't hope, you know they will. Yes, we want girls/women of our type to fall for us. Getting their pussies is merely the first step.
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Originally Posted by indulgent
Bro WB
can you elaborate more how to give her both positive and negative emotions?
thank you once again and hope to have happy ending.
Cheers.
Bro,
Use push-pull and connect-disconnect.
Be brutally honest w/ her. Say EXACTLY what is in your mind. She will hate you, but she can't live w/o you.
You must behave like the PRIZE and believe you hv higher social n sexual value to do this successfully. Be a man of your word and be caring, but never be afraid to lose her.
I wrote in msg #3817:
"Arousing or evoking negative emotions in a girl, whenever appropriate, will greatly increase her attraction for u.
Girls r repulsed by men who r too nice, too agreeable, too predictable n who try to suck up to them.
Another thing. Be very relaxed n comfortable when you say NO. Be playful, even jovial hahaha.
No to a gift which is too expensive, No to request to drive her to the airport, No to a loan..."
Yup. Make her cry, make her come hard. Say no to sex sometimes...
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Originally Posted by maresh
Indeed a very interesting article, was smiling when reading too.
Thanks Bro WB for this fantastic thread.
Cheers.
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Originally Posted by dassier
Same, want to have more gals fall in love with me too.
Bro WB, thank you for a great thread.
Have a nice day.
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Originally Posted by AlexOx
Very nice sharing of Bro WB's experience in this awesome thread.
Hope to read more!!
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Originally Posted by G20summit
Bro WB
Thank goodness I came across your good thread.
Only mother love to child will be unconditional. All other loves will be some returns.
Very glad to read your esteemed forum and glad I learned many things.
Will hope to contribute in future.
Cheers to TGIF.
Bro, tks. You hv made my day!
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Originally Posted by G20summit
Good morning to Bro WB and all.
I love to give PVOs and fully agreed woman who received PVOs will exuberant with beauty.
Hope to achieve more by reading this thread thoroughly.
Yes, you're right. Make them come hard, again n again...
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Originally Posted by G20summit
Another classic GURU forum.
Love to read more.
Cheers.
Tks.
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Originally Posted by bianfuxia
Thank goodness I came across this thread too, thanks very much Bro WB.
Have a good weekend.
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Originally Posted by smallfoot
Hope to achieve more too.
Thank you bro WB for this great thread.
Cheers.
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Originally Posted by TornHymen
Fantastic thread here by bro WB, thanks and have an enjoyable weekend.
Bros, thank you all.
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Originally Posted by fomula
Good morning
Absent makes the heart grow stronger.
Agreed that if any woman can miss you dearly when you are not around even for a day, week or month then think guy is very successful.
A relationship requires strong bonding and passion to keep the flames growing. Life is short and flames shorter. Whatever it is just keep the flame strong.
Another thing guy should really fall in love and if any guy fell in love then he LOST.
Contradicting concept but a reality in life.
Have a fine day,
Bro, tks.
You're right.
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Originally Posted by fomula
Bro WB
Is great to state terms clearly and written if possible.
I agreed that take it or leave it. always note if gal refused then is her loss and not yours.
Play mind games and gal too. If the gal has a better offer then you are nowhere in place.
Keep the mind games ging and sure a winning fomula.
Have a fine day,
Bro, yes.
It's all in a man's mindset and mental frame. He keeps the power in the rs and she is submissive...
He is the chooser. He must qualify her and make sure she meets his criteria. In a LT rs, her character, intelligence and personality are vital. In addition to her looks, youthfulness and figure.
If he has a long term exclusive romantic and sexual rs w/ a girl, it's because he likes her n wants to help her to become a better and healthier person. NOT because he needs her. And the rs is EXCLUSIVE for her, but NOT for him.
He will always leave her better, in many ways, than when he first found her.
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Originally Posted by bulat
Fully agreed and very said.
Thanks Bro WB for this incredible thread.
Cheers.
Bro, tks.
Have a great weekend to all samsters.
Bro WB
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Hi new to this thread. Recently been watching a lot of you tube videos about game. I would recomend alpha male strategies as a good channel. Also rollo tomassi the author of the rational male, has very good insights into womens behavior when it comes to relationships. Comes from an evolutionary psyc perspective. Just sharing info.
Below is a past forum that I re-quote just for comments.
All women will mind how they look and cannot accept criticism. Women had been trying to imrove their look since day 1. No wonder women businesses thrived and all booming.
Women had been a largest consumers and love to shop. In any place, any time, any events they want to look the best. They will spent money just to look good, feel good and compete good.
Thank bro WB for posting such a great forum
Hope to be able to comment more in future.
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Originally Posted by warbird
Good morning!
I hv alluded to the fact that a man's looks matter much less to women. But physical appearance does matter, but not in the way most men think.
A man is physically most attractive if he is very fit, neat n clean. He must not be overweigth or underweigth..why? Think n you know the answer.
A male's intangible attributes such as self mastery n masculine character/personality r of paramount importance. But there is one physical attribute which is most sexually attractive to women: A V-shape male body. Broad shoulders and narrow waist n hips.
A respected Ang Moh guru just sent me the following recently:
Do Looks Matter As Much To Women? Finally, The Truth
Dear Bro Warbird,
Think that the "GQ model" type of guys who tend to
catch women's eye naturally have a better dating life than you ever
will?
Not necessarily...not by a long shot. Here's the fascinating reason why
you CAN and SHOULD do better with women than they can.
All told, I think it's perfectly natural that most of us as guys
would assume that other dudes who are "gifted" in the looks
department would have incredible success with women, without really
trying.
After all, that's how it seems to go for beautiful women, so why
not for men also?
If a woman looks great, guys will be all over her, often (to their
own potentially disastrous risk) without concern for her
personality or character.
And really, no matter how much we hear about how "looks don't
matter" to women, we can't help but overhear them talking about how
"hot" a particular guy is and/or making side comments to their
girlfriends about how they may be fantasizing about him.
Great, huh?
According to all external evidence, it would indeed seem that men
and women are a lot alike when it comes to how much looks matter,
right?
Not so fast.
What if I told you that my direct experience tells me that how good
looking a guy is has almost NOTHING TO DO with his ultimate level
of success with women?
Your first thought may by that I'm going to join the chorus who
would sell you on the trite but persistent notion that "looks don't
matter".
Well, not me.
Looks may in fact matter, but NOT in the way you might think. At
the very least, not in the SAME WAY that how a woman looks matters
to guys.
Here's how it all works.
First, let's look at the average guy.
And for the record, by "average" I mean ANY guy who doesn't see
himself as being particularly good looking. My firmly held belief
is that ALL of us can be at least an "average guy" by simply caring
enough to have self-respect.
So please don't e-mail me in an attempt to explain how you're
probably "below average", and how what I'm about to say in this
newsletter still won't help you. It's the complaining about that
itself that actually spells out "below average", believe me.
Anyway...
Since "Mr. Average" is not particularly good looking, he may think
that he has less of a chance with a beautiful woman.
This is predicated on logic, of course. Deep down, we all tend to
feel like we should get what we think we deserve.
So "Mr. Average" sees "Mr. GQ" with a beautiful woman and despairs.
But then again, it always seems like the NEXT beautiful woman he
sees is with a guy who he might think doesn't deserve her as much
as HE does. And that frustrates him.
Despair alternating with frustration. Why? Because he's assuming
the women he sees must make dating and relationship decisions the
way WE do as men.
So he sees "Mr. GQ" as deserving, and any less handsome man with a
pretty woman as simply "lucky" or something. And he resents BOTH
guys.
As a result of this poisonous mindset, his problem is that he can't
get up the nerve to ask a woman out on a first date.
But if he could just muster a bit of confidence, he may find that
his masculinity, ability to put a woman at ease in his presence and
his solid character could actually make women go crazy for him
after they meet him.
In fact, a BIG part of his frustration may even lie in knowing that
if he could just get a woman on a first date, she'd LOVE HIM.
...If only, in his mind, she could get past his underwhelming
physical appearance.
Have you ever caught yourself thinking that? I know I have.
Meanwhile, let's consider "Mr. GQ".
Women naturally smile at him when they see him. They may even
flirt a little more noticeably.
Heck, women may even approach him first.
It's not altogether out of the question that women would be
throwing slips of paper with their phone number on it at him.
As such, he likely has NO PROBLEM getting first dates.
But when you get right down to it, a first date does NOT equal
"success with women".
And if you're among the legion of "Mr. Average" guys out there, you
might not ever see the part that comes next. You may not even ever
consider the POSSIBILITY of it, frankly.
Here it is, though: I've lost count of the number of handsome
guys who can get a first date with ANY woman, but who can't get a
SECOND DATE to save their lives.
Why not?
Usually it's one of three reasons:
1) Women, ultimately can't stand to be upstaged in the looks
department. Insecurity and jealousy cause them to run away. They
literally prefer not to date someone "prettier" than they are.
(And for what it's worth, YES...this means you should feel empowered
to go after women who are better looking than you are. They'll
actually like you MORE than women who aren't.)
2) The guy falls for his own shortsighted belief that women make
dating decisions the same way men do, and therefore develops an
arrogant attitude based on his looks. Women like good-looking
guys, but they can't stand arrogant ones. Mark that.
3) It turns out the guy is either BORING or a flat-out WUSS behind
that "pretty boy" façade. Game over.
Isn't the big picture here a little bit crazy?
"Mr. Average" doesn't get a FIRST DATE...mostly due to having psyched
himself out with negative self-talk.
"Mr. GQ" can't get a SECOND DATE...for one (or all) of the reasons
listed above.
In the end BOTH GUYS FAIL with women.
And the most breathtaking part of this whole scenario? Both men
actually have the SAME PROBLEM.
Neither guy has the ability to CHOOSE the women he really wants.
Whether that means "short term fling" or "long term relationship"
is irrelevant. If ANY guy fails to create deep attraction in a
woman, he's getting nowhere with her.
And remember, this is REGARDLESS OF LOOKS.
What's the net/net of all this?
It's simple. Good looks may help a guy catch a woman's eye up
front, but really only matter as it pertains to HOW and WHEN
success or failure with women presents itself.
And yes...an "average" guy may need to take a more objective approach
to getting a woman's attention initially.
But ultimately, only the "Big Four" (Confidence/Masculinity/Inspiring Confidence/Character) matter when it comes to truly attracting her...that is, on YOUR TERMS and for as long as you'd
like her to be in your life.
And the bottom line is that ONLY guys who are in control of their
dating lives can expect to have success with women.
In the example given above, neither "Mr. Average" nor "Mr. GQ" has
CONTROL over his dating life.
They don't hold the cards when it comes to deciding which women
they want to keep around for any length of time.
So if you think about it, whether a guy feels like he has a hard
time GETTING a woman's attention or KEEPING it, the problem is
ultimately the same: He doesn't have the women in his life that he
wants.
And by the way, if you think that the good looking guy may still
have one-up over "average" guys because he can get the "quick lay"
out of the transaction before he ultimately blows it, guess again.
As I've shown you before in the past, high quality women DO NOT
make decisions regarding who to sleep with the same way guys do.
Without "Big Four" substance, ANY guy can forgett about it.
But with the "Big Four" in full effect, you essentially weed out
just about ALL of your competition in today's modern, neutered
world replete with confused men...good-looking and otherwise.
I can hear someone asking, "Yeah, but what about women who AREN'T
high quality?"
What about 'em?
If a woman has low self-esteem and the lower standards that go with
it, the irony is that a more "average" guy may have a better
chance, as it were, even with her.
I personally thank my lucky stars that I DON'T have "model looks",
but that I know what the "Big Four" are and recognize their
importance. My experience with women has been way less complicated
that way, and far more successful.
How about you? Can you adopt that mindset and take full advantage
of the power it holds?
Yes, most girls will like handsome men but like is not love. The girls only want to have handsome men but r/s dun ends there and life goes on.
If the handsome man dun know how to keep the r/s going by giving PVOs or playing around then everything can end.
Hope my comment is correct?
Thank you so much.
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Originally Posted by warbird;11538130
Judging from the posts on the thread [SIZE="4"
Do most girls like "handsome" guys?[/SIZE], the overwhelming majority of men will never get it hahaha.
There is one other thing to remember.
If a man, who doesn't "get it" n is "not GQ handsome," has a very beautiful wife/mistress/lover, he will believe the woman is only after his money or his status. His beliefs n attitude will doom their RS eventually. It's a certainty. This will reinforce his false beliefs n those of his male friends/relatives...a vicious cycle. It will doom his future RS. He will NEVER get it. Really very sad.
Even women/girls don't understand it. Attraction occurs at the subconscious level, it's not a conscious choice.
However, in the final analysis, a man's ability to give his women intense n continuous PVOs is the single most crucial factor in determining the mutual happiness, outcome n longevity of the RS.
The above was sent by a younger singer TH yesterday. An insightful statement which reflects one of many differences between men n women.
I met TH in a small joint by chance. Saw her a few times. I refused to 定台...I told her I had two mistresses. She declined ST. She left SG over a yr ago. I told her I would BY her when she returns on a different visa. I offered X$, but she wanted 33% more. I told her not to come. She was really pissed off. She said her GF, who is not as pretty n older than she, is being kept by a SG man for more money!
Once TH asked for a loan, but I flatly declined. She was most unhappy n she implied that she would never ever become my woman. She even mocked my parsimony n my diminutive height. 你是我这一生见过最小气最吝啬的男人！I love it, what a compliment! Then she sent me a pic of a man who is 187, according to her. She didn't say that was her BF. I was unimpressed even if he was 287, because giraffe was much taller than that, I said. Hahaha...I remained unperturbed. We still keep in touch. Even if she accepts X$ now, I do not want her. I hv many prettier gals who hv agreed to BY. But TH is welcomed to intro girls to me...otherwise I would hv deleted her Wechat long ago.
It's all in a man's mindset and mental frame. He keeps the power in the rs and she is submissive...
He is the chooser. He must qualify her and make sure she meets his criteria. In a LT rs, her character, intelligence and personality are vital. In addition to her looks, youthfulness and figure.
If he has a long term exclusive romantic and sexual rs w/ a girl, it's because he likes her n wants to help her to become a better and healthier person. NOT because he needs her. And the rs is EXCLUSIVE for her, but NOT for him.
He will always leave her better, in many ways, than when he first found her.
Below is a past forum that I re-quote just for comments.
All women will mind how they look and cannot accept criticism. Women had been trying to imrove their look since day 1. No wonder women businesses thrived and all booming.
Women had been a largest consumers and love to shop. In any place, any time, any events they want to look the best. They will spent money just to look good, feel good and compete good.
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