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It’s just a matter of supply and demand of both parties and what you bring to the table that determines how both parties treat each other. It’s part of life, whether online or offline. TS, if a baby elephant ask you out, will you be interested and immediately say yes? Or you just KIV wishing a hotter babe come along? You might be the baby elephant in the lady’s eyes. And how do you react? Depending on your supply and whether you’re in demand. If you have plenty of options.. I will ask her to F off. But if she’s really attractive and interesting, maybe my tolerance level is higher as she’s worth it. It’s very simple
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Singaporean girls below 35 are fucking delusional. Seeking for the perfect man, Preferable with shit loads of money. Absolute bitches. After 35, they are not delusional when they realise ( Gosh it takes them this long!) their market value have plunged. By which time most turn bitter . The more enlightened ones realise then that their best hope for happiness in their lives henceforth lies in yoga.
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but truth be told if she is local you re pretty much in a queue. there are more guys than girls in sg. so any decent looking girl has plenty of choice. so she picks and waits and chooses. just bad for dating. add to increase spending power its not a wonder sg guys go for pinoys, prc and other SEA girls. sg girls in general also bad attitudes. |
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Do you use paid account? I was testing it out but the app seems very commercialized. What do you usually achieve with it? I am curious
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At the time I was actually seeking for a genuine relationship after a bad breakup. Straightaway I knew that this girl has no interest in maintaining some sort of decency as a future partner but more of taking advantage of me. 🤷🏿♂️ When she asked me whether we should go for drinks at other place, I was already pissed I told her no. There was no way I am going to throw more money by almost spending a grand for our first meet. But on a hindsight I should have played along by taking advantage of her, knowing how she behaved like a hit and run case. Lol The signs were all there from the beginning and I overlooked it. Mostly when she said she was raised by a single mother and not have much in their life. I was blind. 😬😬 |
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do something cheap or where u can walk in a quiet place. at least u wanna escalate it no one can see. |
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That's a crazy expensive date, although I would always pay for the first date but a grand is way too much. Lesson learnt. Plan the dinner yourself to avoid such crazy high cost |
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😅 Initial F.W? Or T.Y.S Lol
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What's wrong with our girls ah? i had the most dates with girls from other nationalities |
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can be the most plain guy, fuck in missionary, nothing interesting bum and they re better sg girls really cmi. dont waste time. i used to think sg chinese girls were hot. hHAHAHA I went to australia and first week I never look at another chinese girl the same. she is putting a facade. by the end of australia banging so many european and latin girls hahahaha wtf is a sg girl. shes only good at eating and spending money |
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Alamak bro.. your date sounds abit like what I do when I talk to girls. I know this give the case of insincerity. But for my case, I am suffering from depression and anxiety. Sometimes, it gives me brain fog and makes me forget that I didn't reply to that girl or makes me think that I did. Also, because of my condition, it helps if I just focus on my work ignoring other things until I finish what is at hand. So that might apply to her case too. Also, I have been burn quite badly in my past relationships. So these days, I take a more chill approach in talking to girls hahah. |
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If you are using apps to hunt around, then it is always a case of sometimes you win, sometimes you lose. Not everyone who goes fishing comes back with fish all the time. Like real fishing, you have to spend time and effort on these apps to get what you want.
If you are looking for a real gf/future wife and you have no chance to meet nice girls in daily life, why not ask around for help? There is a group of almost irritating people you can approach. You can approach your married friends and their wives. Ask them for help. Once a person is married, somehow they like to kaypoh about why you are still single. Ask these people if there are nice single girls you can get to know. If all these married people can be bundled up into an app, then the app name will likely be 'Busybody'. You tell them what type of girls you like lah. Once they have someone in mind, this is what you teach them to do. 1. Get them to start a new whatsapp group, add you and the girl in it. 2. Then get them to say simple things like 'I think both of you should meet. (Her name) is my (friend/colleague/whatever). (Your name) is my (whatever). I think both of you will get along well.' 3. Then get this person (busybody) to leave the chatgroup. 4. Then you act a bit shy and say hi. Normally the girl will not leave the group. 5. So if each set of married friends intro you to 1 girl, you have a few girls you can chat with. Cannot get together then at least make 1 new friend. Feels like wechat right? 1 girl per chat. 6. So like wechat, your profile photo matters ok. Choose one where you look natural. As a Singaporean guy, we grew up with Singaporean girls. From primary 1 to secondary 4, that is like 10 years of female classmates. Normally we get along with the majority of these Singaporean girls. It is not like suddenly all of them turned bad right? There are always a few cases of extreme vanity and strong personality but there are enough girl next door for us to choose. If all else fail, the next thing you need to do is to organise a class reunion. Many couples get married as a result. Last time when I was 13, I like you but I have no guts to say. Now that I am older, I have nothing to lose since we will not be seeing each other daily like last time when we are in the same class. Maybe she will ask you why you didn't say you like her at 13. Then you say you are shy lah. (Don't be so honest and tell her at 13 some other girl have bigger neh neh )
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