Sexless Marriage

[Dignified69]

Originally Posted by YELLOW

Encourage all bros in a sexless marriage to eat out . Just keep ur sanity . Dont divorce .

Divorce will be devastating when there are kids. This problem has to be nipped in the bud.

Within few years of marriage if this problem starts go straight for counselling. Give clear and direct threat of eating out.

Eating out is a short-term solution which is fun in the short term. In the long-term it will create resentment and bitterness which will creep into other areas of the marriage and even impact your mental health.

Sexless marriage is a strange and painful torture. You may have everything in the eyes of the world but not having this one thing will eat you up

[nkyc]

I struggled with the idea of divorce recently. But strangely what worked for me is i was upfront and threaten my wife with it to say that I'm angry with her and explored the idea of divorce... Immediately she cry and we managed to work something out. Definitely not easy but i think being truthful and not hiding my emotion helped me and my wife. Of course not all relationships are the same, just sharing to help cheer up the bros who are down and struggling with thoughts of divorce

[lilmei]

Originally Posted by nkyc

I struggled with the idea of divorce recently. But strangely what worked for me is i was upfront and threaten my wife with it to say that I'm angry with her and explored the idea of divorce... Immediately she cry and we managed to work something out. Definitely not easy but i think being truthful and not hiding my emotion helped me and my wife. Of course not all relationships are the same, just sharing to help cheer up the bros who are down and struggling with thoughts of divorce

I guess the sex improved? Did she have sex willingly or just going through the motion? If she's just going through the motion and no feel or love throughout the process also sianz, right?

[larue]

Originally Posted by nkyc

I struggled with the idea of divorce recently. But strangely what worked for me is i was upfront and threaten my wife with it to say that I'm angry with her and explored the idea of divorce... Immediately she cry and we managed to work something out. Definitely not easy but i think being truthful and not hiding my emotion helped me and my wife. Of course not all relationships are the same, just sharing to help cheer up the bros who are down and struggling with thoughts of divorce

Your anger towards her was just about the lack of sex with her?

You’re right though, it’s all about communicating and men are mostly terrible at it.