The Making of A Cheongster

[risinggesture]

This is the story of my cheonging journey.

Currently my cheonging statistics:
Overseas FL x 1
Overseas Massage (HJ) x1
SG Dome 3 FL x 1
SG massage (HJ) x 3

It could be a long story or a short lived one. It really depends on whether I manage to quit before it becomes a lifelong habit. I will try my best to document all of my cheonging encounters. This post will be about myself, second post will be about my first cheonging experience and thereafter.

I hope long time cheongers will be able to relate to my thoughts entering into the lifestyle and that newbies can make their decision to make their first foray by observing some one who is just a few steps ahead.

First of all, I'm married for 6 years with no kids. With a wife that loves sex and complains that my libido is low. We're both early thirties and attractive (ownself praise ownself). Why am I cheonging?

Well I think it started with boredom, curiosity and my first chionging experience started rather unexpectedly. I never knew about the cheonging scene when I was younger and before I got married. But the discovery of sammyboy opened my eyes and it was interesting reading this forum. I thought I would never cheong myself for the following reasons:
1. Faithfulness- Married life
2. Danger- Health risks, marriage risk, reputation risk.
3. Financial costs- Each session can add up to a sizeable amount quickly. I could invest or buy myself something nice. I'm a thrifty person who never had much big purchases for myself. So I couldn't imagine spending it on a moment (albeit a hot steamy moment with a beautiful lady).

But I guess when you expose yourself enough to the thoughts, when the situation arrives, you find yourself inadvertently walking through that door...

So now we're acquainted, in my next post, let's talk about my first cheonging encounter. Why it happened and how it happened.

[Kovovo]

Hope ur story not short-lived.
Waiting for more

[risinggesture]

The Making of A Cheongster (Chapter one)

Chionging Journal #1

My first ever chionging session started 3 years into my marriage. After having a very active sex life with my wife, my interest in sex with tapered off. Partly because the sex have started to feel routine. And with the pressures of marriage and the quarrels that happen, I started to treasure quiet and peaceful times with her, and sex with doesn't come to mind as often.

Slowly but somehow, my wife became the one who initiated sex more. And I could tell her desire for it was as strong, if not stronger than the past. I asked myself if I was losing my sex drive. But unknown to my wife, I was still into porn, and I did enjoy and get excited by those fap sessions. So I don't think my desire for sex has waned, but rather desire for sex with my wife had waned. At this point, she was the only person I had ever had sex with. Then came the fateful day and everything changed.

We were holidaying in Bangkok. What was a nice trip suddenly turned sour (which has become a common thing between us). I don't even remember what we argued about during our Grab ride back to the hotel in the early evening. She was so upset that she stormed back to the hotel room while I was paying the fare. I was seething and decided to go to the nearby convenience store to cool off. I went back to the hotel room only to find that one of our small luggage was outside the door and my clothes were inside! Yes my wife is a passionate woman, and a fiesty one. That day, she had enough of me.

Feeling rejected and angry and confused, I left the hotel with luggage in tow, suddenly with no where to go, in Bangkok. Perhaps a seasoned chiongster would relish that moment immediately and know where to go in order to turn misery into joy. But I was too down at that point. I walked the streets with my luggage and eventually booked a decent hotel to spend the night.

Back at the hotel, all alone, I scrolled my phone to see if the missus had changed her mind. But nope. I eventually scrolled wechat and searched nearby. I'm sure you guys can relate, that's how the horniness starts and I got distracted from my sorrows by opening my eyes to the night of possibility that lay ahead. I had no idea where to go and what to do though. I didn't think "time to bonk!", but I just wanted to find someone to perhaps crossover to the forbidden.

I decided against meeting someone on wechat because I wasn't sure how real the girls were. I decided to search for a nearby club, and went there. At the time I didn't surf SBF enough to know there was a whole comprehensive section on BKK. Arriving at the club, it was awkward as hell. Cause I was alone, and I never went up to a girl in a club to start a conversation. At the same time I was feeling miserable too. I knew a few girls kept making eye contact with me and they were really pretty SYTs. I just didn't have the guts to go over, and averted my gaze in nervousness. They didn't come over too.

At this point I thought I should just go back to the hotel and sleep, then at the entrance of a club, a man approached me and asked if I wanted to find a lady. Now, I was skeptical of wechat, but for some reason, not even being horny at that point, decided to follow this stranger in a foreign land. My indecisive nature just followed his persuasion.

Thankfully, I am alive here writing to you and I did not lose any kidneys
The man really brought me to a street where there were rows of shophouses. And each one had a group of ladies at the entrance. He asked me to take my pick! Now I'm tall and I know ladies notice me for my looks. But the way the girls reacted gave me the illusion I was the most handsome man in the world.

I didn't know whom to choose and at that moment the amateur in me was completely overwhelmed. The girls were pushing against each other and pulling. At that moment, I just pointed my finger at one whom I thought stood out. But to be honest, the pressure and attention was too much for me. In hindsight, not my best pick lol.

The girl was very happy and followed me. We took a grab back to the hotel. I was very shy and awkward. Remember this is my first time with another woman! She held my hand in the lift and smiled shyly. When we got back to the room, she undressed me and brought me to the shower.

For me, the shower was awkward though the girl started stroking my dick (which had gotten hard). We went out to the bed and immediately she started kissing and licking me all over. I started noticing more about her up close. She was much shorter than me and a really petite woman. Small shapely boobs, rebonded long hair, dark skinned.

She gave me a blowjob (something I always craved for but my wife stopped 1 year into my marriage). I remembered why I love BJ so much at that moment. It just that warmth coupled with the movements of the mouth. The girl really worked hard and it was a sloppy blowjob. Then she got up and rode me and eventually shifted to missionary and finished off the deed. I'm sorry bros, it wasn't very eventful.

Now I always imagined these sessions to be full of passionate love making. But I realised now what bros were saying when they said "Chemistry". And maybe because it was my first after my wife. I just kept thinking about my wife and how our sex is always full of passion and the feeling is just so different with this hooker. You can probably tell by now that I tend to overthink. Perhaps to be a good chiongster who gets the bang worth the buck, you have to be able to let go and run wild. I do wonder for married/attached bros, were you able to enjoy your first time without thinking about your partner? Because it is impossible for me.

At this point the girl asked me if she can stay the night (she didn't mention top up of cash). Perhaps it's post nut clarity, I just had no more desire. I told her it's ok and thanked her. She got dressed, gave me a peck on the cheek, and tried asking again if we could spend the night, but I was done and we parted. And eventually the next morning my wife called me and we met and made up. (Of course she didn't know what I did, only thinking I must have had a miserable night alone).

I thought to myself, I will never chiong again. Maybe I'm someone who must have feelings to enjoy the sex, and no way will I consider an emotional connection with another woman. (weird I know). If I were to ever fuck another woman, it must be a stranger and it must purely be physical. That's were I still am able to hold a line, for now. True enough, I didn't chiong any more.

For 1 year.

Because the next time somehow happened again, and thankfully, it was a much more sensual and gratifying experience.

<<TO BE CONTINUED>>

[Kovovo]

Nice update!
Moar plsss

[Eltron]

Good start TS, please continue

[otamay]

Camping here for more interesting updates please.

[5vamp5]

Camping gear activated. Thanks and keep on updating.

[Steventan]

Setting up camp.
Please do continue

[RestlessStorm]

Nice start bro, do continue

[Kovovo]

Ups u bro rising gesture pls keep it cumming!

[Isedora]

Very good start bro, wish to read more..

[Newbieler]

Camping for more updates
Great story TS

[mangoes49]

Pitching my basha tent

[FitMaxim]

Please keep going TS!

[risinggesture]

The Making of A Cheongster Chapter Two

Author's Note:
Thanks for the encouragement bros. Please know that these chionging experiences are real and true. I just want to reflect my thoughts and experiences when I chiong. I'm fairly inexperienced in the scene and my current chionging stats remain limited:
Overseas FL x 1 (Chapter 1)
Overseas Massage (HJ) x1 (Chapter 2)
SG Dome 3 FL x 1
SG massage (HJ) x 3
For today's story, the very good news is that I managed to find the actual pictures of the massage joint I visited, so it will help you visualise. Without further ado, let's proceed to our story.

Chionging Journal #2
One year had passed since my first ever chionging experience. This time I was in Indonesia for a business trip. Having some free time during the day, I decided to search for massage near my residence. I've always only gone for clean massages. This time I wasn't thinking of finding a massage with extra too. Saw that near my hotel there was one with good reviews on Google.

The place was called SOAPLAND.
Facebook link: https://m.facebook.com/Soaplandmassage/
Remember bros, I was clueless and never tried special joints. The name didn't spark any curiosity in me some how. What a blur head I was. (Still am actually haha).

I arrived at the place, there was a guard at the door sitting behind the table. Its not rare to see guards outside businesses in Indonesia. He opened the black tinted glass door for me.



I was greeted to a nice lounge, with plenty of seating area, a buffet table at the side and a projecter screening BPL matches. A professionaly dressed lady invited me to sit on a sofa, and handed me an ipad. She spoke to me in Bahasa but quickly switched to english when she realised I wasn't local.

Receptionist Lady: "Sir, how long massage you want? Please choose package, how many handjob you want."

WTF, at this very moment I "woke" up. She gestured to the ipad and asked me to choose a girl. A part of me wasn't ready to "chiong" again. But the temptation creeped in. After all I was already in the cave of the lionness.

So, I started scrolling. Very quickly my thoughts shifted from "Should I?" to "which Girl?". I would rate the ladies there at that point of time probably a 6-7 at most.



I chose this one, whom I've found that she's used in some of their facebook promo pics. The receptionist said she's available and asked me: " Do you want classroom or massage room?"

I was very caught off guard. Apparently you can roleplay in a classroom setting? I am not adventurous and picked the massage room. Picture below.



I was escorted to the room on the upper floor by the receptionist and she closed the curtain for me. There was no massage clothes that I typically find in a massage room like this. Just the bed as in the picture. I waited for quite awhile and used my phone. After about 15mins, the masseuse arrived. She looked very sweet and thankfully there was no deviation from the photo!

She smiled and looked surprised. She couldn't speak english but gestured to me to take off my clothes. I stripped to my underwear and wasn't sure whether to keep it on. She looked at me and giggled and gestured again to mean "Take it ALL off".

I was naked and then she gave me a towel and brought me out of the room to a shower area. She waited for outside while I took a quick rinse. This is the part where you make sure of your hygiene haha. She quickly ushered me back to the massage room after I was done. I felt weird walking down the corridor wrapped in just a towel.

Back in the room, she asked me to lie face down on the bed. She removed my towel, and started massaging my back. I must say that I've had better massages but I wouldn't describe it as piano playing too. Eventually, there was a lot of touching of my butt. She slid her small and delicate hands under my groin and my dick was already wet from precum.

She massaged my nether regions tenderly and slowly. I was rock hard and lifted my pelvis off the bed so she had greater access. She was wearing a red checkered mini skirt and I slowly stroked her calf. This was my first time feeling up a masseuse! I slowly made my way to her skirt hem and slid underneath. Unfortunately she was wearing skin tight shorts. I know she couldn't feel much from my stroking but she didn't stop me.

She asked me to flip over and kept her hands on me. With my risen dick, she slowly used both hands to cup it and gave a sensual stroke.

This time was different from my first FL bonk. I didnt think too much, I was in the moment. I didn't feel guilty. Seemed like I deemed the massage less intimate than full blown sex? I know it makes no sense, just an observation of self.

The masseuse slowly picked up the pace and soon enough I came. Honestly her technique may have felt sensual but I think the climax was mechanical. I think technique may be important, but how the girl behaves makes a difference too.

I was quite embarrassed after cumming. She quickly took some tissues and helped clean up. I'm not sure what bros do usually. do you lie there like a king or you clean up after yourself?

After I was done. She led me back to the showers. I got changed thereafter. I gave her a $20 tip and left. I guess in a place like this, there's no golden question.

I went back down and the receptionist led me to the counter to make payment. After that, I left the premises.

And there you have it, my first ever special massage. Little did I know, it would be way more expensive and difficult to find such experiences back in Singapore in the future. Because my next massage would be after Circuit Breaker during Covid.

Till then.