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Matters of the Heart. Has a Commercial Fuck turned into a torrid Love Affair which has turned your life upside down? Fear not. We have experts here who can help you through your roller coaster ride. Tell us your story and we'll do our best to help. |
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Payment they did make, but in kind. ....
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I beg to differ. If what you said is true, then I suppose you are not in love with your ex-girl in the first place. You love yourself. Getting a replacement is just a way to lick your wounded self-esteem and recover the feel-good factor. This is the de-facto problem with people who are so-called "in love" with WL, FL or whatever. And by chance, these girls are the perfect-fit with their "work-instinct" to stroke our gender ego....
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This all got good advice on getting over broken heart. Gd stuff - Kum Xias!
But also don't understand why many people, boss also automatically assume is equal and same as getting over 'relationship' with a ho. If play play with whore also can call love or RTF keep piakpiak with some commercial loveholes = a relationship then no hope for tis world liao! of cos with a kway the one you hit on tio bao by someone with moremoney you tu lan a bit so get another broad to massage ego is normal one. But hor real life also cannot possibly like that one. Only if you kana the money can buy love thinking cos cheong too much then will think tis way! Kio kway is kio kway. Real life is not just kio kway. talk like real lifeis just cheongstering is really immature! Like the other bro mention above , the "love" that many have foor their whores is really just ego and self love. Many just like the convenient self confirm and power n other illusion that throw money at kways give. This kind of love wll take more than cold shower to wake up la!! |
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You gave your heart away. You took that leap of faith. You jumped in head first. However you want to put it, you fell in love. Now it's gone. Whether they broke up with you or you broke up with them or some other outside force pulled you apart, it's over. If you find yourself trying to hide in the bottom of a bowel of ice cream or have acquired a large pile of tissues or however you deal with heartache, this is your wake up call. Today is the day you turn it around.
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If sex between 3 people is called threesome, and between two people is called twosome, why is handsome still a compliment? 愛情就像香煙整天叼在嘴邊,明明知道受傷的是自己,確總也也戒不掉。 |
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It's been said a million times but you are always surrounded by people who love you. Whether it's family or friends or anyone in between, there is at least one person one the planet who loves you and cares about you. These are the people you need to start spending more time with. They will be more than happy to reassure you of just how wonderful a person you are. They can also keep you busy. Go to a movie, go bowling, just go do something. If you're busy doing other things, you won't have the time to waste thinking about that person and the pain you may be going through. These are wonderful people and are very useful in your recovery.
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If sex between 3 people is called threesome, and between two people is called twosome, why is handsome still a compliment? 愛情就像香煙整天叼在嘴邊,明明知道受傷的是自己,確總也也戒不掉。 |
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Ask not what SG society can do for you but what you can do for SG society. |
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Appreciate the suggestion to fits the demographics of this board, but somehow I managed to keep all the KC-ing control within my limits, hence got no real experience to be able to tweak that article. Feel free to tweak that article, in ur wisdom and if Boss also allows, to share enlightenment to any Bros here caught in KC-ing entangle stage. Happy Bonking...
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If sex between 3 people is called threesome, and between two people is called twosome, why is handsome still a compliment? 愛情就像香煙整天叼在嘴邊,明明知道受傷的是自己,確總也也戒不掉。 |
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When you leave the house, make sure not to forget your smile. It's proven fact it takes more muscles to frown than it does to smile. Not to mention the fact that when you smile, you do start to feel better. It may
seem silly faking a smile but if you're lucky, it'll soon become real. Who knows, you might just catch someone's attention with your pearly whites.
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If sex between 3 people is called threesome, and between two people is called twosome, why is handsome still a compliment? 愛情就像香煙整天叼在嘴邊,明明知道受傷的是自己,確總也也戒不掉。 |
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Don't spend another second dwelling on the events and every little detail trying to figure out how what you could have done differently. It's in the past. There is no such thing as a time machine so you can't go back anyways and fix it. Your focus should be on today and the future. Put all the bad thoughts and feelings out the window. They won't do you any good but will weigh you down. If you feel like this is the worst thing ever and you just can't go on, try and remember that there is someone somewhere who is worse off than you.
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If sex between 3 people is called threesome, and between two people is called twosome, why is handsome still a compliment? 愛情就像香煙整天叼在嘴邊,明明知道受傷的是自己,確總也也戒不掉。 |
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Bro, I am deeply impressed about the wisdom you share..
I hope it will reach my innermost heart.. |
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thanks bro hella21,
just bumped into your thread and read your essays. i just had a painful heartpain from a WL. this is my 5th time... but the most painful one (4th pain) was from my normal local ex-gf... it took me 3 years to recover and then went back to the FL scene. ... a vicious cycle |
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8 Tips for Happiness and Optimism
By Bob Murray, PhD and Alicia Fortinberry, MS Connecting is the key to happiness and personal fulfillment. If your relationships are supportive and fulfilling you can be healthy and happy, you can free yourself from depression and become optimistic. If your relationships are anything less, then the reverse happens: you become ill, happiness is impossible and you can sink into profound pessimism. Your goals remain out of reach. In their book Creating Optimism Bob Murray and Alicia Fortinberry reveal the fundamentals of happiness and 8 things you can do today to create happiness and optimism. Connection to Others “…at the very heart of your being.” Make a list of friends you haven't contacted in a while but would like to, and call them. Autonomy “…a feeling of independence and a sense of being in control…” Go to as many local establishments rather than chains as possible and strike up a conversation with the proprietor or service people. Self-Esteem “…a function of how you perceive others view you.” Catch yourself every time you make a self-deprecating comment. Competence “…relates to how effective you feel you are.” Ask the people in your life to tell you when they think you've done something well. Purpose “…fulfillment and meaning throughout your life.” Ask your friends and acquaintances to describe what they see as their purpose beyond making money or caring for others. Connection to Your Body “...vital to our complete sense of self...” Throw out all your magazines that feature impossibly perfect-looking men or women on the covers. Connection to Nature “…its permanence, its beauty and power…” Walk in a park or other natural area for twenty minutes each day. Pat at least one dog and talk to its owner. Spirituality “…a powerful weapon against depression...” Make a list of all the things you believe in that give you comfort.
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If sex between 3 people is called threesome, and between two people is called twosome, why is handsome still a compliment? 愛情就像香煙整天叼在嘴邊,明明知道受傷的是自己,確總也也戒不掉。 |
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cheers toast to more fruitful k-Cing WL |
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Upz for this thread...indeed it is so so true.
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