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Old 22-09-2015, 12:05 AM
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Re: Expiry Date - On Life

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How many people actually live their lives without regrets?

I have so many regrets that I don't know where to start.

I have so many fears that I don't know what is real or false anymore.

How to break free?
When you can't get over something, it becomes a regret. All of us have situations that potentially become regrets. No matter what mistakes you have made, whatever wrong moves you made, just tell yourself that it's all over now. No point dwelling on it for no matter how much you regret, nothing ever changes. Rather, take it as a learning journey. Be thankful it happened so that you can plan better in future.
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Re: Expiry Date - On Life

Ain't all of us have a expiry date in our life? Just a matter of when it going to expire.....

As ages catch up our expiry date get nearer....
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Old 05-10-2015, 05:38 PM
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Re: Expiry Date - On Life

No one knows when is life`s expiry date.
Someone whom is still talking to you one day, could be suddenly gone the next.

The real pain is not in death itself but instead on those that is still living.
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Re: Expiry Date - On Life

No one knows when is life`s expiry date.
Someone whom is still talking to you one day, could be suddenly gone the next.

The real pain is not in death itself but instead on those that is still living.
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Old 06-10-2015, 11:49 AM
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Re: Expiry Date - On Life

Been to many funerals and baby parties. Life & death are inevitable so why trouble yourself over when it'll come?
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Re: Expiry Date - On Life

I am past 40
every day is earned
I am single, fell in love, fall out of love.

Rich poor all will leave this world some day
Live the day.

Live without regrets
regret as in i have tried but not successful, so be it

Not everyone can be millionaires, some are born some are self made
and if you are not, so be it. Be content, live within one's means.
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Re: Expiry Date - On Life

I was only 26 when I almost died and was diagnosed with an illness. After spending countless of time in the hospital and doctors office, I look at things differently now.

Career and money no longer means anything important. I take things slowly and enjoy every good day that comes by because I never know if the next day is a good or bad one.

I learn to let go of my unhappy past and live my life to the fullest. I focus more on people who treats me well and love me. I let go of people who hurt me and people who doesnt cherish me.

I hope my expiry date is still long away but who knows what will happen then next moment.
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Re: Expiry Date - On Life

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I was only 26 when I almost died and was diagnosed with an illness. After spending countless of time in the hospital and doctors office, I look at things differently now.

Career and money no longer means anything important. I take things slowly and enjoy every good day that comes by because I never know if the next day is a good or bad one.

I learn to let go of my unhappy past and live my life to the fullest. I focus more on people who treats me well and love me. I let go of people who hurt me and people who doesnt cherish me.

I hope my expiry date is still long away but who knows what will happen then next moment.
Babyhazel, just live our life the way we want to live so that if one day we expired, we still can smile when we look back.
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Old 13-10-2015, 11:50 AM
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Thanks TS for this Thread

the question ...to ourselves, is very helpful as a motivator for ACTION...

when will our life expire?

i am ruminating on my "END", ruminating on feelings of REGRET ..."I Realise Now I wasted My Life"- tragic line from a book by George Leonard

REGRET i wasted my life ... not LIVING MY POTENTIAL....knowing that i am capable of more ... i am not down with thots of regret, the opposite, i am using regret as a positive emotion to take action ....

to me its about What We Choose to Focus on ....

"My Experience is What I Agree to Attend To" - William James

i am re-learning to FOCUS on my CIRCLE of CONTROL ...and increasing that circle..

this video help me undertsand this...



and i am trying out this "WOOP" technique by Gabriele Oettingen (youtube & free website lessons) on how to get what we want ... step by
step

this video has great problem solving technique too

1. State you problem
2. Then ask yourself " what would it do for me to solve this problem?"
3. your answer/s to that question, then leads to asking in what other ways can i solve this problem, leading to new solutions never though of



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Old 13-10-2015, 10:54 PM
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Re: Expiry Date - On Life

I love the positive responses here!

Lost my mum last year and until now my life hasn't really recovered. Moving forward I'll need to set my mind to working and improving myself once more.

Sure still miss her, though. But I'll never forget her.
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Re: Expiry Date - On Life

I might every week go geylang to fk or simply just live my life as normal and plan everything to be handover to my family members.
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Re: Expiry Date - On Life

when i was in my 20s, money was a means to everything.

now in my early 30s, the mindset more or less has changed.
issues that can be solved by money is not a big problem, those that can't be solved by money are a big problem.

priorities change when ppl age...
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Re: Expiry Date - On Life

Life is short na.
Find Joy in your Journey ^^
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