Sexless Marriage

[larue]

Originally Posted by fatuncle

How I wish my wife will do that. Then it will make it easy for me to to file for seperation.

No filing is needed for separation. Just leave.

[justwanadoit]

At least the brothers here attracted to their wives, i am totally not attracted at all. Not sure why i marry anyway.
sigh, guess its a big mistake in life. Now keep eating outside, and i felt bad

[alan928]

Originally Posted by arrdwolf_77

I never knew i will be in this thread but here am i. I super regret getting married that's for sure and will never encourage anyone to do it if u haven't.

Thanks bro, I will listen to your advice!!

[Dignified69]

Originally Posted by alan928

Thanks bro, I will listen to your advice!!

Nothing wrong in getting married.....but if your luck is bad and you end up with a sexless nutcase....well then....

[Greenfrog]

Originally Posted by justwanadoit

At least the brothers here attracted to their wives, i am totally not attracted at all. Not sure why i marry anyway.
sigh, guess its a big mistake in life. Now keep eating outside, and i felt bad

did u marry for the sake of marriage??

[Jabba]

Life is short. Enjoy while it last. Going out to eat is one thing, but make sure dont get cheated by FL outside.Nowadays FL very cunning, with u, behind got others as well.

[loneyheart]

Dum worry abt FLs nowadays they all want fast job no more KC n GFE especially PRCs

[wskkern]

Bro... Totally understand you.. I'm almost in the same situation as you.. What u can do is drink all u can and fall a sleep at night...

[deematter]

is hard to manage this kind of marriage, is look like abnormal too

[alea]

Originally Posted by wskkern

Bro... Totally understand you.. I'm almost in the same situation as you.. What u can do is drink all u can and fall a sleep at night...

Same here bro. Will drink a bit every night before sleep just to numb my brain from thinking too much.

[YELLOW]

Encourage all bros in a sexless marriage to eat out . Just keep ur sanity . Dont divorce .

Originally Posted by alea

Same here bro. Will drink a bit every night before sleep just to numb my brain from thinking too much.

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by YELLOW

Encourage all bros in a sexless marriage to eat out . Just keep ur sanity . Dont divorce .

Looks like dat is the best solution thus far...but just don't get caught by yr wife ..cos then it will be all hell break loose

[=M4G=MrX=]

By and large, the more a couple invest in their marriage, the greater the likelihood they will stay in it. In terms of sexuality, social prescriptions also play a role. These include the social norms that committed couples remain sexually exclusive backed up by the legal norms that make it difficult for couples to end their relationship when it becomes less than satisfying.

Here are some of the reasons why some couples choose celibacy in their committed relationships:

The passage of time
The longer a relationship endures, the greater the chances that the couple’s sexual fires will diminish. Even so, many older adults do remain sexually active. For aging women, the issue may be not only one of time changing the nature of the relationship but the fact that their partners are no longer alive or are in poor health.

Stressors in the relationship
Even relatively young couples can become voluntarily celibate if they are facing enough outside pressures. Late in a woman’s pregnancy, the couple may decide to cease having sex, and even after the baby is born, she and/or her partner may simply not have the energy to engage in sexual activity. Eventually, most couples do become sexually active again after six months, but they may then run into other competing demands on their emotional energy.

Illness in one or both partners
The development of chronic physical or mental illness isn’t necessarily the deal-killer when it comes to sex, but it may significantly interfere with one or both partner’s libido. It may be fairly obvious how physical illness can become a limiting factor, but generally people with psychological disorders may lose sexual interest as a result of medication or self-doubts associated with stigma. Declines in sexual activity may potentially contribute to mental health problems, particularly if one or both partners feel that they are less attractive and desirable than they once were.

Guilt or conflict
Certainly, many people with strong religious convictions continue to enjoy a satisfying sex life, particularly if their religion places a high value on propagation. However, a lifetime of being exposed to religious teachings that place proscriptions on oral sex and masturbation may leak over and hamper the expression of sexual activity even within the marriage.

Generally, sexual activity is positively linked to relationship satisfaction, but there are still couples who don’t fit this pattern. They can maintain high relationship quality because their view of their relationship has shifted to define the sexless life as normative.

On the other hand, if a couple is celibate because their sexual relationship was unsatisfying or unfulfilling, then it stands to reason that they will experience high levels of sexual dissatisfaction. They may also start to stray from the marriage and seek sexual gratification in an extramarital affair, which may exact a high emotional toll both on the cheater and the cheated-upon.

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by =M4G=MrX=

On the other hand, if a couple is celibate because their sexual relationship was unsatisfying or unfulfilling, then it stands to reason that they will experience high levels of sexual dissatisfaction. They may also start to stray from the marriage and seek sexual gratification in an extramarital affair, which may exact a high emotional toll both on the cheater and the cheated-upon.

Well said by bro =M4G=MrX= ...yes, this is exactly wat is happening in a lot of marriages today judging from the sharing of so many bros in here...sigh

[stonned]

Originally Posted by fatuncle

How I wish my wife will do that. Then it will make it easy for me to to file for seperation.

Bro, you don't need any reason to commence separation. You can initiate it anytime you want to. Either notify her by a proper text message or deeds of separation of she's willing to sign it. If you are really hard pressed to get a divorce, you can even use this (deprived of sex) as a reason. File it under unreasonable behaviour. But of course be prepared for a lengthy legal battle as your wife will likely contest it.