How to Slow Down nd Retire from FL

[oni4tests3]

I'm surprised you guys can spend thousands or go multiple weeks. I only spend max 300-400 and once in a month. Other than that just try find hookups or watch porn.

But again i'm also looking for full retirement from FL or ML.

[alleycat]

Originally Posted by Brink

Need to find other activities that tire you out mentally or physically.
Or a partner that will satisfy your needs.
I have not had sexual intercourse for a long long time, I just go for bbbj/cim when I go for paid sex, which is quite seldom now.

Each time after paid intercourse, I just feel unfulfilled, even tho I went in with loads to release.
Gradually, just went less and less....tho I still don't know why less and less, just feel less like going for it, maybe cause the after effect of unfulfillment is worse that unreleased.

Same here. I dunno if its post nut clarity or perhaps just over thinking. After shoot liao, i just feel unfulfilled. The last time i cheong was Feb 2023. I thought I wanna stop cheonging..Not gonna lie, after 1 year hiatus, the itch is cumming back. I guess, once a cheongster, always a cheongster.

[junior_cannibal]

Originally Posted by aki9

perhaps its the real intimacy that is missing, which results in such feeling of unfulfilment.

Have you developed friendships with the FL's that you fcuk ?
It would be interesting to know their respective stories,... how, why they are doing this.
However, there's always the games of betrayals, back-stabbing, emotional games..etc.,..

in SG, we may be having the most sex, but not making real babies
Feel unfulfilled which results is so many sexual crimes here in society ?

to the medical doctors, psycholigists reading this,
shall we start a Psychologist-based Brothel here in SG ?

PM me

Developed friendship? Seriously??
The cultural difference alone would prevent that. Most of all, the two of you already fxxxed and now want to be friends? Or when you RTF it's FOC cause you guys are now friends?
In the older days when costs of living were lower, that might be possible. Now, their visa fees, middlemen charges are so high, these FL day in day out are only thinking how to make more and fast money. Who will have time to talk love and friendship?
Spending thousands a month for FL, could be a form of mental illness that can be cured, if its the testosterone that's overwhelming or irregular, some medication can normalise or regulate it.

[tpylor8]

May be we should start a cheongsters anonymous group for those who give up ..just like there is alcoholics anonymous ..
Of course that group cannot exist in this forum

[humburgler]

Originally Posted by alleycat

Same here. I dunno if its post nut clarity or perhaps just over thinking. After shoot liao, i just feel unfulfilled. The last time i cheong was Feb 2023. I thought I wanna stop cheonging..Not gonna lie, after 1 year hiatus, the itch is cumming back. I guess, once a cheongster, always a cheongster.

wah 1 year. how you tahan?

[humburgler]

Originally Posted by tpylor8

May be we should start a cheongsters anonymous group for those who give up ..just like there is alcoholics anonymous ..
Of course that group cannot exist in this forum

wy no exist here??
here not only talk about FL leh

[humburgler]

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

Developed friendship? Seriously??
The cultural difference alone would prevent that. Most of all, the two of you already fxxxed and now want to be friends? Or when you RTF it's FOC cause you guys are now friends?
In the older days when costs of living were lower, that might be possible. Now, their visa fees, middlemen charges are so high, these FL day in day out are only thinking how to make more and fast money. Who will have time to talk love and friendship?
Spending thousands a month for FL, could be a form of mental illness that can be cured, if its the testosterone that's overwhelming or irregular, some medication can normalise or regulate it.

yah true I realize after covid worse. All fuck and go type

[ATCong]

Originally Posted by humburgler

Been Cheong for 16 years and now really want to ultimately stop going FL

Have a few attempts of stoping for a few months but end up always going more after the stop

I start thing thread to hear from bros who manage to slow down and ultimately stop going to FL

One way is to think about the risk of getting STD and how it will affect your daily lives, job, family.
It could be more worse than you think.

Another is to stop going those websites, or TG to view the options.

[IamGood]

Its like dieting. The hunger makes u eat triple portion.
I quit ktv, brothels, for 20 yrs. Then the first wl, walau, feels heavenly to see another woman naked again. Then quut wl for one yr, start ml. Walau eh, first time massage and hj sibei shiok. Till now cannot quit ml wl fl wtf Ls.

If you cannot convince them join them.
Life is short. 一笑而过。笑傲江湖！

[Flight]

I had to 'force' quit.
Had a fl always let me raw her, for about 18 mths, only her, 1 or 2 times a month.
When she left, I look for others, put on condom, knn, less than 2 mins soft.
Try a few more girls, also the same.
Can only condom with viagra, but really no point.
Now I just slowly slowly bj/hj till cum with same girl, hope maybe one day she let me raw.
If not, shrugs...

[junior_cannibal]

Human, in particular, men are horny. The only difference is only when horny, what will one do, find partner, FB or FL. Some will pcc. Once the sperm leaves the testicles, then become saint for a while.

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by humburgler

can up my points

haha why you need points?

[humburgler]

Must slow down leh

now waiting for bros retire one come share

But most retire will not visit this site also

[humburgler]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

haha why you need points?

up for fun

[hayhay]

Originally Posted by aki9

have you calculated the total amount of money you spent on these FL's ?
Ever caught any bugs, infections over the years ?
Maybe knowing answers to the above may help you stop

If want to fuck no need to scare this scare that, just wear a condom.
I got bug so many time. Just see doctor and eat ur antibiotic I still fuck around