Tantric Massage

[johnsm]

Originally Posted by rokhard

Hey bro, you are not off topic. Read my post #79 above for Christina Low's workshop details. You and your trainer will be clothed though, so you shouldn't be expecting any 'bliss' or 'relief'. This should be authentic, but I can't say if this is mainstream Indian tantric (or an offshoot) or the westernized 'California tantric'.

You should note that you are expected to commit yourself to a 2-3 month course because 1 session is not going to help you.

Do share your experience.

I do need to comment that Christina Low rates are a little on the high side and I do actually know folks who do not really "learn" anything out of the session. Nevertheless, she has many fans as well so its really hard to say if she is a good teacher.

Personally I am more of a hands-on person. Touch varies from person to person and there has to be a certain degree of trust between both parties to perfom a proper tantric massage and enjoy it. There is a certain way to touch sensually and yet be non-invasive at the same time building up this "trust" between the two parties. When it comes to the actual yoni massage, its not simply insert your fingers and start poking. From some of the demonstrations I have seen, you can even give a orgasmic yoni massage by massaging the bottom and the surface of the yoni.

I know of a good male tantric practitioner who is willing to share and how to provide a sensual but non-invasive touch. His female clientele has highly recommended him. I can check with him if he is willing to do closed session of 1-2 person to share but you may need to bear the costs of the session.

[wester]

Originally Posted by johnsm

I got a couple of massages in regards to tantric massage in Singapore especially so thought I would share some information here.

I have tried several trantric massage establishments over the past year in Singapore and have narrowed down to RedTantraMassage and OmTantra as the more professional ones. Even within RedTantraMassage and OmTantra, its hit and miss with the number of masseurs they have. I have a resident masseur that I use as I enjoy her touch. I can share her name via PM if you are interested. However, I need to warn that different people enjoy different touch so she may not be for you.

I would suggest at least 90 minutes session with prolonged ejaculation so you can enjoy the sexual buildup which is quite intense (at least for me). Try not to release prior to the session to optimize your money spent else you would be more disappointed. The masseur usually start the massage topless so please respect them and you will get a much better sensual experience.

can i have her contact?

[rokhard]

Originally Posted by johnsm

I do need to comment that Christina Low rates are a little on the high side and I do actually know folks who do not really "learn" anything out of the session. Nevertheless, she has many fans as well so its really hard to say if she is a good teacher.

Personally I am more of a hands-on person. Touch varies from person to person and there has to be a certain degree of trust between both parties to perfom a proper tantric massage and enjoy it. There is a certain way to touch sensually and yet be non-invasive at the same time building up this "trust" between the two parties. When it comes to the actual yoni massage, its not simply insert your fingers and start poking. From some of the demonstrations I have seen, you can even give a orgasmic yoni massage by massaging the bottom and the surface of the yoni.

I know of a good male tantric practitioner who is willing to share and how to provide a sensual but non-invasive touch. His female clientele has highly recommended him. I can check with him if he is willing to do closed session of 1-2 person to share but you may need to bear the costs of the session.

This is a good post, bro, and I rated you!

I will try RedTantra when I have the time but I am not sure if I can get value from their high charges. So far, I have not heard anyone giving a definite thumbs up for RedTantra and the service is 90 minutes: for me, that's a sure indication that it is too short for tantric enjoyment. I have opined that it is not possible for a full tantric session in Singapore (our hectic lifestyles: rush, rush; cheap and good expectation; fast-forward high expectations etc), unless there's an authentic, secretive practitioner who is serving a very exclusive, quiet and off-radar clientele.

If you are a fan of a masseuse from RedTantra, why would you find Christina's charges on the high side? They are in the same ballpark, no?

As for some people not learning, I can only say that each of us have our strengths and weaknesses: you can't teach me how to dance, but I am a pistol crackshot. Life's like that, you win some and you lose some.

And talk about touch pressure, I know as a sniper that your trigger pressure must be just right (trigger pull after trigger pull: muscle memory). Your arm has to be steady and you have to breathe right, and you need the instincts to know where you want to place your shot. You can't really teach this. This logic applies to massage as well: the touch pressure must be just right (if too soft you can't feel and if too hard you don't enjoy), the muscle memory must be there to apply the same pressure, the breathing must be right and the instincts: oh yeah you simply can't teach this, the masseuse needs to know where to place the 'shot'. Why should we be surprised that some didn't learn from Christina's class?

Ya I can understand that yoni massage is not as simple as sticking your fingers in. Its like the time, a so-called tantric masseuse unceremoniously stuck a finger in and I really didn't enjoy that: it was more violation than bliss.

You could PM Katespadeheart: she might be interested in the male masseur. I got my issues.

[johnsm]

Originally Posted by rokhard

This is a good post, bro, and I rated you!

I will try RedTantra when I have the time but I am not sure if I can get value from their high charges. So far, I have not heard anyone giving a definite thumbs up for RedTantra and the service is 90 minutes: for me, that's a sure indication that it is too short for tantric enjoyment. I have opined that it is not possible for a full tantric session in Singapore (our hectic lifestyles: rush, rush; cheap and good expectation; fast-forward high expectations etc), unless there's an authentic, secretive practitioner who is serving a very exclusive, quiet and off-radar clientele.

If you are a fan of a masseuse from RedTantra, why would you find Christina's charges on the high side? They are in the same ballpark, no?

As for some people not learning, I can only say that each of us have our strengths and weaknesses: you can't teach me how to dance, but I am a pistol crackshot. Life's like that, you win some and you lose some.

And talk about touch pressure, I know as a sniper that your trigger pressure must be just right (trigger pull after trigger pull: muscle memory). Your arm has to be steady and you have to breathe right, and you need the instincts to know where you want to place your shot. You can't really teach this. This logic applies to massage as well: the touch pressure must be just right (if too soft you can't feel and if too hard you don't enjoy), the muscle memory must be there to apply the same pressure, the breathing must be right and the instincts: oh yeah you simply can't teach this, the masseuse needs to know where to place the 'shot'. Why should we be surprised that some didn't learn from Christina's class?

Ya I can understand that yoni massage is not as simple as sticking your fingers in. Its like the time, a so-called tantric masseuse unceremoniously stuck a finger in and I really didn't enjoy that: it was more violation than bliss.

You could PM Katespadeheart: she might be interested in the male masseur. I got my issues.

Thanks mate and I am not sure how the ratings work anyway. Not too concerned with it.

For RedTantraMassage, as you mentioned, it is definitely too expensive if you compare dollar to dollar with others. I am not a fan in case you misunderstood. However if I have to choose between a crappy massage and a semi-professional massage and pay more, I will do it. I also like to go for sessions that are at least 4 hours or more but in Singapore, its just too expensive. Actually a 4 hours session that I had recently in California costs me around USD460. If you compare dollar to dollar, its still not that bad and I had a great time.

From what I understand in Christina's case, you need several sessions and its not a one-off sorta of thing. As such, it would turn out to be way more expensive that you think it will cost. Personally I would just spend the money on actual hands-on sessions, chat with the therapist and learn from there. By the way, I believe Christina offers hands-on sessions but for a premium if I am not wrong.

In regards to touch, it is more than touch pressure for me. Its the techniques that is used in combination as well. For example, in one of my recent session overseas, I experienced the therapist using kneading techniques to start off the massage instead of the usual swedish style. It was a nice surprise and she was damn good at it which I found out later that she was a certified massage therapist.

I will share this recent session that I had as it was very interesting. There were many things and sensations that I have not experienced before. She also used her fingertips (not her fingernails!) to start off the lingam massage with soft strokes which was a first for me. Throughout the session, she also kept whispering to me which was very sensual as it feel very initimate but not sleazy. She also rubbed her yoni against my elbow while kneading my back which felt sensual and non-invasive. In fact, I was not aware of it until much later! This was again another first for me. Last but not least, we communicated before the start of the session to find out what makes me aroused and she make use of that element to heighten the experience. In my case, it was feet and she used her feet to do seducing etc.

I probably will not PM katespadeheart. I will wait for her PM if she is interested. I do know of many guys who want to learn yoni massage so they can practice on their wives or girlfriends.

For the sticking of a finger in, I did indeed experience it before and felt like I was in some kind of science experiment.

Maybe we should catch up some day and have a glass of wine to further discuss tantric massage. I really enjoyed reading your posts in this thread. I seldom see someone that is so into tantric massage nowadays with the advent of escorts and what-nots.

[ouzo18]

Since have this thread, I think Mary/Maya business will increase ..... Haha

[rokhard]

Originally Posted by johnsm

Thanks mate and I am not sure how the ratings work anyway. Not too concerned with it.

For RedTantraMassage, as you mentioned, it is definitely too expensive if you compare dollar to dollar with others. I am not a fan in case you misunderstood. However if I have to choose between a crappy massage and a semi-professional massage and pay more, I will do it. I also like to go for sessions that are at least 4 hours or more but in Singapore, its just too expensive. Actually a 4 hours session that I had recently in California costs me around USD460. If you compare dollar to dollar, its still not that bad and I had a great time.

From what I understand in Christina's case, you need several sessions and its not a one-off sorta of thing. As such, it would turn out to be way more expensive that you think it will cost. Personally I would just spend the money on actual hands-on sessions, chat with the therapist and learn from there. By the way, I believe Christina offers hands-on sessions but for a premium if I am not wrong.

In regards to touch, it is more than touch pressure for me. Its the techniques that is used in combination as well. For example, in one of my recent session overseas, I experienced the therapist using kneading techniques to start off the massage instead of the usual swedish style. It was a nice surprise and she was damn good at it which I found out later that she was a certified massage therapist.

I will share this recent session that I had as it was very interesting. There were many things and sensations that I have not experienced before. She also used her fingertips (not her fingernails!) to start off the lingam massage with soft strokes which was a first for me. Throughout the session, she also kept whispering to me which was very sensual as it feel very initimate but not sleazy. She also rubbed her yoni against my elbow while kneading my back which felt sensual and non-invasive. In fact, I was not aware of it until much later! This was again another first for me. Last but not least, we communicated before the start of the session to find out what makes me aroused and she make use of that element to heighten the experience. In my case, it was feet and she used her feet to do seducing etc.

I probably will not PM katespadeheart. I will wait for her PM if she is interested. I do know of many guys who want to learn yoni massage so they can practice on their wives or girlfriends.

For the sticking of a finger in, I did indeed experience it before and felt like I was in some kind of science experiment.

Maybe we should catch up some day and have a glass of wine to further discuss tantric massage. I really enjoyed reading your posts in this thread. I seldom see someone that is so into tantric massage nowadays with the advent of escorts and what-nots.

I understand the ratings are good for credits and discounts (see the FAQ): I am just kidding. I think it helps with seniority and how the broes 'trust' your information or requests.

From your accounts, I query if they were authentic tantric massages. By authentic, I mean the original version from India, which incorporates the spiritual aspects: think authentic Yoga. I am not saying that I really want this, but once you move into sensual tantric, it isn't the original form.

If you depart from the original form, then it is anything goes except that there must be this element of the tantric masseuse as the guide: she will introduce with a greeting and guides with the breathing and each stage of the sensual touch. It is almost like being loved.

Apple, my little project, on the other hand is nowhere near this, which is why I have described her massage as Pseudo-Tantric. Her ability is in giving the extended sensual bliss: this is purely sexual in contrast. Even then, she has not reached the expertise of Cici (Beijing) who helped me with the multiple cum-less climax. Apple is good for a slow burn; the sweet torture and breathing will come automatically.

Thanks bro for the wine invite, but I treasure my privacy. This thread is good for sharing our experiences, so we know what is available in Singapore and beyond.

[johnsm]

Originally Posted by rokhard

I understand the ratings are good for credits and discounts (see the FAQ): I am just kidding. I think it helps with seniority and how the broes 'trust' your information or requests.

From your accounts, I query if they were authentic tantric massages. By authentic, I mean the original version from India, which incorporates the spiritual aspects: think authentic Yoga. I am not saying that I really want this, but once you move into sensual tantric, it isn't the original form.

If you depart from the original form, then it is anything goes except that there must be this element of the tantric masseuse as the guide: she will introduce with a greeting and guides with the breathing and each stage of the sensual touch. It is almost like being loved.

Apple, my little project, on the other hand is nowhere near this, which is why I have described her massage as Pseudo-Tantric. Her ability is in giving the extended sensual bliss: this is purely sexual in contrast. Even then, she has not reached the expertise of Cici (Beijing) who helped me with the multiple cum-less climax. Apple is good for a slow burn; the sweet torture and breathing will come automatically.

Thanks bro for the wine invite, but I treasure my privacy. This thread is good for sharing our experiences, so we know what is available in Singapore and beyond.

Lolz about the points. Anyway doesn't matter since I am just babbling on a topic that interests me.

I must say that I am not sure what is the original form anymore these days. I have seen many tantric massage videos from many different "schools" and they seem like a deviation from original form where it touches fully on the spiritual side of it. (Kinda makes me think of a medium at a seance.)

Most of the sessions I have been too involves some form of sensual massage with the usual breathing guidance etc. I always thought that tantric massage at its essence is the ability to build up sexual energy and go beyond to experience sensations. I always experience new sensations with different sessions and its quite amazing.

You are seriously tempting me to just fly over Beijing and try CiCi's skills but I really have no business there at this time of the year. Maybe we can get her to come over to Singapore for a couple of sessions if she is willing to? I would definitely pay for at least a 4 hour session and hopefully others are willing to chip in. I know that you would also go for at least another session, my friend.

Sorry for my insensitivity on the invite as I thought this was just another topic at another forum since I do not quite dabble in the rest of the forum.

[rokhard]

Originally Posted by johnsm

Lolz about the points. Anyway doesn't matter since I am just babbling on a topic that interests me.

I must say that I am not sure what is the original form anymore these days. I have seen many tantric massage videos from many different "schools" and they seem like a deviation from original form where it touches fully on the spiritual side of it. (Kinda makes me think of a medium at a seance.)

Most of the sessions I have been too involves some form of sensual massage with the usual breathing guidance etc. I always thought that tantric massage at its essence is the ability to build up sexual energy and go beyond to experience sensations. I always experience new sensations with different sessions and its quite amazing.

You are seriously tempting me to just fly over Beijing and try CiCi's skills but I really have no business there at this time of the year. Maybe we can get her to come over to Singapore for a couple of sessions if she is willing to? I would definitely pay for at least a 4 hour session and hopefully others are willing to chip in. I know that you would also go for at least another session, my friend.

Sorry for my insensitivity on the invite as I thought this was just another topic at another forum since I do not quite dabble in the rest of the forum.

Hey bro, don't worry. We are tantric enthusiasts and by definition, there should be a quiet reserve about it.

I think which form any of us prefers will depend on what we need from Tantric Massage: do we need the spiritual-sexual healing? loving comforting? Connection with our sexual self? Or we just seeking the bliss, the pleasure?

Is the deviation necessarily bad? Isn’t it like saying that there should only be one form of taiji, one form of yoga and one form of mediation, right?

Actually I wouldn’t fly all the way to Beijing. Remember that every review is subjective. It is only a reference point. If more than one bro agrees with my review, then the review becomes a bit more reliable. Do try Cici if you are in Beijing and Cici represents a viable option.

Hey bro, besides Tantric Massage, I am also exploring other Manhood Therapies such as the Malay Urut Batin and not forgetting the 'sister' to Juagen, the Prostrate Therapy, which I believe is part of traditional Chinese therapy (if not officially part of TCM medicine).

[johnsm]

Originally Posted by rokhard

Hey bro, don't worry. We are tantric enthusiasts and by definition, there should be a quiet reserve about it.

I think which form any of us prefers will depend on what we need from Tantric Massage: do we need the spiritual-sexual healing? loving comforting? Connection with our sexual self? Or we just seeking the bliss, the pleasure?

Is the deviation necessarily bad? Isn’t it like saying that there should only be one form of taiji, one form of yoga and one form of mediation, right?

Actually I wouldn’t fly all the way to Beijing. Remember that every review is subjective. It is only a reference point. If more than one bro agrees with my review, then the review becomes a bit more reliable. Do try Cici if you are in Beijing and Cici represents a viable option.

Hey bro, besides Tantric Massage, I am also exploring other Manhood Therapies such as the Malay Urut Batin and not forgetting the 'sister' to Juagen, the Prostrate Therapy, which I believe is part of traditional Chinese therapy (if not officially part of TCM medicine).

I like the way you phrase it. Generally I like everything there is to the tantric way. I first got interested in it as I understood that the techniques acquired made love making longer and more pleasurable. This information was shared with me by a masseur I encountered overseas. She mentioned what is learnt in tantra will enable you reach hundreds and thousands of thrusts before you even ejaculate while climaxing in between.

However as I went in search of good tantric massages, it was more than just sexual bliss. I can always feel the different surges of energy moving up and down my body especially my legs during the lingam massage. Last but not least, it does feel like there is an element of love and connection. (This does not mean I love the masseur but there is a unspoken intimate connection between us.)

I would and am tempted to fly to Beijing given your multiple recommendations of Cici. However I still prefer the 'traditional' tantric massage where both the masseur and the person being massaged is naked. It is not so much of the visuals as I hardly look at the masseur when I am in the session. However it sets the mood and building the trust between both people are easier. The masseur should also guide you to touch her from time to time. This connection somehow increases the overall sensation for me due to the sensual nature of the session. However I have only managed to get selected masseurs in Asia to trust me and do the above. The result is that the masseur will always enjoy the session unlike one where he/she is expected to work throughout. Nevertheless, this is me and may be different from person to person.

I find that your likes and dislikes are very similar to mine. Thus, I will not be trying Mary/Maya as you did not enjoy the session. I have also explored urut batin, juageng and the what-nots which all seems to be just glorified handjobs to me. I apologise in advance if I offend anyone with the next comment as I feel kinda sleazy after such sessions. I miss the love, warmth and the sensual-ness that I get from a good tantric massage. Anyway, I will drop you an PM and maybe we could exchange some contacts that you have good reviews of.

[johnsm]

I got a couple of PMs on places to go for overseas tantric massages. If there was one place that I would keep going back to, it would be the Temple of Bliss. They have centres located around several states in the US. The website is http://www.templeofbliss.com/

I have tried both Luna and Maya for tantric bodywork and the experience with Luna especially was great. I had my best sessions there. I am not a fan but do give it a go if you are around the vicinity.

Another place that I have visited which is pretty good is WINKS London. You can find their website here: http://www.winkslondon.com/ They are a little expensive but the service is top-notch. The atmosphere is good and the mood is set. Its a little expensive but do try it and you will never regret!

I have also met another masseur recently who claims to practice tantric massage so I decided to try a 2 hour session. The whole session was quite disappointing but she did okay on the sensual tantric portion. I kinda like her touch and have decided to 'guide' her at my expense. I have booked in a 6 hour session with her to perform a proper tantric massage on her to show her what it is like. After which, I will get her to repeat the techniques on me. If she turns out to be much better after some guidance, I will have another contact to share with everyone here.

Enjoy my friends but respect the masseurs/ therapist!

[rokhard]

Originally Posted by johnsm

I got a couple of PMs on places to go for overseas tantric massages. If there was one place that I would keep going back to, it would be the Temple of Bliss. They have centres located around several states in the US. The website is http://www.templeofbliss.com/

I have tried both Luna and Maya for tantric bodywork and the experience with Luna especially was great. I had my best sessions there. I am not a fan but do give it a go if you are around the vicinity.

Another place that I have visited which is pretty good is WINKS London. You can find their website here: http://www.winkslondon.com/ They are a little expensive but the service is top-notch. The atmosphere is good and the mood is set. Its a little expensive but do try it and you will never regret!

I have also met another masseur recently who claims to practice tantric massage so I decided to try a 2 hour session. The whole session was quite disappointing but she did okay on the sensual tantric portion. I kinda like her touch and have decided to 'guide' her at my expense. I have booked in a 6 hour session with her to perform a proper tantric massage on her to show her what it is like. After which, I will get her to repeat the techniques on me. If she turns out to be much better after some guidance, I will have another contact to share with everyone here.

Enjoy my friends but respect the masseurs/ therapist!

Bro, are the contacts for Luna and the unnamed masseur (2-6 hr session) public or private? Are you able to give more details of your experience with Luna and the unnamed masseur?

Is Maya the same Maya at Orchard Towers?

[johnsm]

Originally Posted by rokhard

Bro, are the contacts for Luna and the unnamed masseur (2-6 hr session) public or private? Are you able to give more details of your experience with Luna and the unnamed masseur?

Is Maya the same Maya at Orchard Towers?

My Friend,

Sorry for the confusion. I would like to clarify that the Luna and Maya I am referring to is from the Temple of Bliss in the States. Contacts for Luna and Maya are on the Temple of Bliss website. You can contact them anytime if you are in the area for a session but do bear in mind that there is a roster in place. As such, if you want to look for a particular person, you need to check the roster for her duty hours.

For the unnamed masseur, I would like to try another session with her before I release any contact information via PM so as not to waste everyone's time. Her contact information though is private and she is not advertising her massage services. It just so happened that I met her through other means while on business. However she is not located in SG but just across your borders.

[LevusJovi]

Originally Posted by rokhard

I thought that is Candice and not Snowbunny? Anyway I have a bro who will share with us as soon as he is able to get an appointment with Candice.

Snowbunny and Candice is the same person. Look at below link for a simple and short FR by me

http://sbfsg.net/showthr...71#post5988071

[starboy]

I booked Apple today and would like to thank Bro Rockhard for arranging the appointment.

The session was 2 hours and Apple was very friendly. She started the massage with a good rub on the back with oil from the neck to the toes. She gradually lifted my left leg while keeping me lying on my back and placed my left leg on her lap and started to give my testicles a sensual massage. The feeling was great. She then proceeded to lift my right leg and placed it on her lap and did the same to my testicles. Great feeling and full of pleasure.

After about half an hour she turned me around and began giving the penis a sensual massage with lots of oil. She seemed to be moving the flow of blood from all around my waist and legs to the penis. This resulted in the penis having a good erection throughout the massage. The entire session was great with pure pleasure all the way. She alternated between giving the penis and testicles sensual massages. The women certainly knew what she was doing. She was vey focused.

She spend the last 15 mins providing sensual massages on the penis head. I could feel the army of sperms gradually building. I eventually ejaculated but what surprised me was the orgasm that usually last between 3 to 5 seconds was very different this time. I experienced 2 orgasms. It started with a mild orgasm that lasted for about 3 seconds but there was no ejaculation. Few seconds later, the second orgasm followed and I could feel the sperm from the base of the penis that ejaculated. The sexual sensation lasted about 5 seconds but it was awesome. Never had more than one orgasm in my life before. It was indeed a new experience for me. The penis remained erected after that so I have no idea how she did it.

Please note that Apple remains fully clothed throughout the session. Strictly a sensual massage so dont expect anything more from Apple. She does not offer anything more than the sensual massage.

For those brothers who would like to try her service please contact Bro. Rockhard. Thanks Bro. Rockhard for all the effort in arranging the appointment.

[johnsm]

Originally Posted by starboy

I booked Apple today and would like to thank Bro Rockhard for arranging the appointment.

The session was 2 hours and Apple was very friendly. She started the massage with a good rub on the back with oil from the neck to the toes. She gradually lifted my left leg while keeping me lying on my back and placed my left leg on her lap and started to give my testicles a sensual massage. The feeling was great. She then proceeded to lift my right leg and placed it on her lap and did the same to my testicles. Great feeling and full of pleasure.

After about half an hour she turned me around and began giving the penis a sensual massage with lots of oil. She seemed to be moving the flow of blood from all around my waist and legs to the penis. This resulted in the penis having a good erection throughout the massage. The entire session was great with pure pleasure all the way. She alternated between giving the penis and testicles sensual massages. The women certainly knew what she was doing. She was vey focused.

She spend the last 15 mins providing sensual massages on the penis head. I could feel the army of sperms gradually building. I eventually ejaculated but what surprised me was the orgasm that usually last between 3 to 5 seconds was very different this time. I experienced 2 orgasms. It started with a mild orgasm that lasted for about 3 seconds but there was no ejaculation. Few seconds later, the second orgasm followed and I could feel the sperm from the base of the penis that ejaculated. The sexual sensation lasted about 5 seconds but it was awesome. Never had more than one orgasm in my life before. It was indeed a new experience for me. The penis remained erected after that so I have no idea how she did it.

Please note that Apple remains fully clothed throughout the session. Strictly a sensual massage so dont expect anything more from Apple. She does not offer anything more than the sensual massage.

For those brothers who would like to try her service please contact Bro. Rockhard. Thanks Bro. Rockhard for all the effort in arranging the appointment.

Another mate hooked on tantric massage! Welcome to the club my friend. Haha.

Its always amazing that one can remain fully erect even after ejaculation. I was shocked when that happened to me the first time and most importantly, I did not feel as spent as I do after sex. Not sure if you felt the same way?

Cheers!