Just a word of advice

[King67vsqueen81]

Originally Posted by innocentgurlsg

I've been thinking for awhile if I should make this post and if I should talk about what happened to me . Hesitated at first but then again , I told myself what more do I have to lose ?

And so the story goes . I joined a swingers group that organized get together , orgies for like minded people and people who shared the interest . I mean who's not horny nowadays . It was fun at first , the meet ups , drinks with friends , , the sex .

But then the group started to become more exclusive , they had their little cliques where they would gossip about the others and even amongst that , there were smaller groups . The privileged ones . These were the ones who ruled the group , who decided who could or could not join in the activities .

And its was because of the few that many of the bystanders got implicated when our details were shared online in this forum . They were hostile to new groupies , especially mean to males who first joined . I guess they went too far on someone and he/she /they hot back by posting detailsand pictures of the group and its members here .

I was foolish enough to have posted my facial pictures online but lucky enough to not have shown anything more revealing . All this while , the group admins never once thought that they were in the wrong .They felt like they were protecting their flock . There were others who joined in the fray , probably wanting to be heroes and only made it worse .

I was swamped with friend requests from total strangers and as of last week I have since deleted my profiles and accounts , I left the group quietly without fanfare . This is my last mention of anything to do with that group . I wish to move on with my life and take the experience as just something I jumped into without thinking of the consequences .

Thankfully it hasnt spread beyond a few forums but I shudder to think what will happen if it does . I only have myself to blame for my foolishness and naiveté .

This is a gentle warning to those of you who are thinking of joining such a group , be careful what you share and whom you share it with . The world is not all butteflies and rainbows .

To those whom I called friends and some whom I still regard as a friend who were in that group , think hard about what you want , be safe and god bless .

Dnt be a coward and jus only know how to write over all this nonsense leading the members here to have misunderstand. Prove urself and dnt act like as if u are a victim, who knows u are a guy or gal? Or maybe u are someone that sour grapes, usually complains will only comes in when sour kicks in