How to network and not feel awkward?

[yangyang77]

Originally Posted by Alibaba23

You are starting to get the idea. The idea is just sincere about knowing that person. And like you said everyone has the intention, then the true intention should be to know the person. I mean I didn't have the intention on my mind to say that "oh this one must be FB, this one my close sales". For me, it's more of I want to know you, who are you, what you do and etc. With sufficient information, then I make the decision to get my intention.

Because I believe as long as you know the person you will know whether is he/she heading the same direction(intention) as you. And that will build a better bond than compared to not knowing and just do what you want and not care about the other party's actual intention. I think I roughly got your idea.. correct me if me wrong

[yangyang77]

Originally Posted by cornelius

Remember. No partner like their partner to be 婆婆妈妈 type. As other well said, thick skin. Rejection will make you a better person and soon success will fall upon u

True enough.. #lyfe hahahaaa

[ralliart]

Why do we always hear stories about married man have fling while single man suck thumb?

It all boils down to 1 simple reason... When a married man meets a lady, he has no other intention coz he knows he has a wife back at home. He knows he has no pressure to impress the lady and be at ease with himself.

That's the killer most ladies are looking for... Ladies will feel at ease with these guys and ultimately fall in love with them...

Believe me or not, it's not about looks or money

[yangyang77]

Originally Posted by ralliart

Why do we always hear stories about married man have fling while single man suck thumb?

It all boils down to 1 simple reason... When a married man meets a lady, he has no other intention coz he knows he has a wife back at home. He knows he has no pressure to impress the lady and be at ease with himself.

That's the killer most ladies are looking for... Ladies will feel at ease with these guys and ultimately fall in love with them...

Believe me or not, it's not about looks or money

Well said.. Will keep that in mind bro

[Alibaba23]

Originally Posted by yangyang77

Because I believe as long as you know the person you will know whether is he/she heading the same direction(intention) as you. And that will build a better bond than compared to not knowing and just do what you want and not care about the other party's actual intention. I think I roughly got your idea.. correct me if me wrong

You got it Yang Yang!

[Alfang]

Network via wechat or apps first. Chit chat to get familiar first before meet up.

If comfortable, meet up. if not just delete or block him/her. Happy networking gals.

[yangyang77]

Originally Posted by Alibaba23

You got it Yang Yang!

Thank you millionss!

[yangyang77]

Originally Posted by Alfang

Network via wechat or apps first. Chit chat to get familiar first before meet up.

If comfortable, meet up. if not just delete or block him/her. Happy networking gals.

It's kinda broad, and what I meant is when out there knowing someone. That feeling..

[Alibaba23]

Originally Posted by yangyang77

Thank you millionss!

Don't mention it! So want to network with me? Hahaha

[yangyang77]

Originally Posted by Alibaba23

Don't mention it! So want to network with me? Hahaha

I'm a guy bro, dun misunderstand..

[Alibaba23]

Originally Posted by yangyang77

I'm a guy bro, dun misunderstand..

Network do sales! Network Chiong together!

[diputs1269]

Originally Posted by conquer

Rule #1: Thick face
Rule #2: Thick face
Rule #3: Thick face

Agreed, this is the first hurdle to overcome before anything else.

[yangyang77]

Originally Posted by Alibaba23

Network do sales! Network Chiong together!

If you don't mind, sure!
What kind of sales?

[yangyang77]

Originally Posted by diputs1269

Agreed, this is the first hurdle to overcome before anything else.

Just couldn't overcome this...
Easier said than done......

[MoeLanYong]

Go with zero expectation. Be yourself. The more you expect a good outcome, the more you try to behave a certain way, the more stressful it becomes.