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Old 26-05-2021, 11:53 AM
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Re: What is the most important factor in finding girls for sex?

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'Wait is this a service? Am I hiring a FL right now or are we doing it because it is a natural progression of our feelings?' You might have your own definition but the moment the guy knows what you do, it confuses the hell out of him pushing him into the boundaries of abnormalities.
A good friend of mine once said, if you like something enough, don't turn it into a job.

I had my shares of hookups before and yes, the moment the ambiguity kicks in, the woman usually is on the losing end as the guy would hold back. Non-committal intimicacy is already complicated as it is, even without the extra baggage.
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Re: What is the most important factor in finding girls for sex?

Moi not caucasian but live in Europe. All needed is just go dating apps and just swipe everyday. Sure got a few drop into your lap. Then just date. May not score on 1st date but you can already feel the vibes if it will lead to sex

Already pump more ladies in Europe in my few years there than in Singapore. Angmo ladies more chio, busty and easy going. Also in Europe more choices...got angmo, Latinas, Arabic, Asian etc
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Re: What is the most important factor in finding girls for sex?

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Moi not caucasian but live in Europe. All needed is just go dating apps and just swipe everyday. Sure got a few drop into your lap. Then just date. May not score on 1st date but you can already feel the vibes if it will lead to sex

Already pump more ladies in Europe in my few years there than in Singapore. Angmo ladies more chio, busty and easy going. Also in Europe more choices...got angmo, Latinas, Arabic, Asian etc
I guess there are no scammers in dating apps because the Tiongs cannot communicate with Angmohs LD
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Re: What is the most important factor in finding girls for sex?

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I wanna hear your guys opinions on what factor in a guy will make a normal women (as in not working ladies) want to sleep with you easier?

Firstly i'm asking here in this section because i want to hear a much more serious point of view. As it is a real life matter rather than fantasy.

Secondly i'm referring to attracting normal girls for sex. Not working ladies. And purely just for sex. FWB / One night stands... or play play relationship. Not referring to long term relationship girlfriend kind of sex.

I understand many times in life money can override everything, so would you think that,

1. Having good looks / good body
2. Knowing how to sweet talk
3. Having alot of money


I'll chip in my own later as i don't want to lead the answers.

Now let's hear from you
None of the above.

This is the secret:



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Re: What is the most important factor in finding girls for sex?

Good evening,

I like to share insights on what is very attractive to women from Mr. Mike Haines.

"Women are attracted to you because you have a stronger frame than they do."

"Women would rather fuck an ugly guy with a strong frame than a handsome guy with a weak one."

"A girl can ONLY get horny for you if you have a stronger frame than her."

“Be a man. Act like you have answers.” (Bill Burr)

Any comments?

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It's predestined that all the particles and forces in the universe are constantly conspiring in my favor.
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Good evening,

I like to share insights on what is very attractive to women from Mr. Mike Haines.

"Women are attracted to you because you have a stronger frame than they do."

"Women would rather fuck an ugly guy with a strong frame than a handsome guy with a weak one."

"A girl can ONLY get horny for you if you have a stronger frame than her."

“Be a man. Act like you have answers.” (Bill Burr)

Any comments?

Cheers!

Bro WB
Sorry to burst your balloon.

Bill Burr is probably a simp.

Take a look at his wife. If you check out various pics, he is likely clinging on to Nia as if she is the best he can have. Loser by your definition.
https://news.amomama.com/208224-nia-...cy-bill-b.html
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Re: What is the most important factor in finding girls for sex?

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Sorry to burst your balloon.

Bill Burr is probably a simp.

Take a look at his wife. If you check out various pics, he is likely clinging on to Nia as if she is the best he can have. Loser by your definition.
https://news.amomama.com/208224-nia-...cy-bill-b.html
Bro, tks for your post.

Don't forget that "one man's meat is another's man poison."

Yes, Bill Burr is a big loser by my definition. But it doesn't invalidate everything he has said.

Because knowing, doing, and being are completely different.

Have you seen Arnold Schwarzenegger's maid mistress with whom he had a love child?



https://www.cbsnews.com/news/mildred...reaks-silence/

Poor Arnold. He had to share his mistress's pussy w/ other men. She wasn't even sure if her son was Arnold's. I feel very sorry for him.

How about the new sexual partner of the world's richest man Jeff Bezos? She is a 51yo woman w/ three children (not his)!! She is older than TY's mother by more than 5 years! And I'm much older than Jeff.

Google Mark Zuckerberg's 36 yo wife.

Yeah, their women are old aunties to me. IMHO, they are all losers when it comes to women.

BTW, many very smart, successful, and powerful men are completely clueless about women.

Isn't life beautiful?

Cheers!

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It's predestined that all the particles and forces in the universe are constantly conspiring in my favor.

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Re: What is the most important factor in finding girls for sex?

I just replied to a bro on my thread.

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Hi Bro WB, what is this frame refering to ? Hope to get your enlightenment
Bro, tks for your question.

"FRAME" is the frame of mind or state of mind or mindset, and in the context of attracting women, refers to a man's emotional strength, self-mastery, and other masculine character traits including courage, dominance, confidence, non-neediness, ambition, trustworthiness, reliability, intelligence, specialized knowledge/skills, compassion, n kindness, etc.

I forgot a MAN's value to society and that he is God's gift to all beautiful women in the world. If all of the above is truly your frame of mind at the subconscious level, you will have no competition in getting all the most attractive girls of your type.

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It's predestined that all the particles and forces in the universe are constantly conspiring in my favor.

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Re: What is the most important factor in finding girls for sex?

I just posted in my thread.

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Bro, tks for your post.

Yes, self-assuredness is more than just self-confidence. My two Nanjing women like to say 要很笃定,很冷静 or very self-assured and very calm, coolheaded and imperturbable, no matter what happens.

Peace of mind and tranquility are also vital. Yes, especially in life and death situations. That is when we can separate a real MAN from tens of thousands of little men/boys. Unlike in ordinary circumstances when a man may be able to fake it.

Don't forget to be ASSERTIVE, but not aggressive. Be dominant, not domineering. Be in control, not controlling. Big difference. Very big difference.

All of the above are results of a MAN's awesome emotional strength and self-mastery at the subconscious level.

Be fearless. Like a zen master.

Yes, in the last many yrs, I hv also alluded to the importance of generosity, empathy, compassion, kindness, loyalty, responsibility, reliability, and trustworthiness. A man's word is his bond.

I hv also stressed the importance of giving unconditionally. See my post on the highest form of love between a woman and a man.

Last not but not least, a MAN should think and behave like the prize from the first second he meets his dream girl until the last second he is with her.

If you have ALL the masculine character traits I have mentioned here and in my previous post, do you think you will have any competition in getting your dream girl? Unless she is a psychopathic gold digger.

Cheers!

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Re: What is the most important factor in finding girls for sex?

Good morning,

IMHO, extremely few attractive and cute SYTs of my type from PRC will be coming to Singapore after the pandemic. Actually, there has been a dearth of these highly desirable girls since 2016.

Sadly, we will be getting only plastic women/aunties and very old aunties.

Unless the very attractive young woman knows you very well and wants to be your long-term sexual partner, she won't come here. If you do happen to see one, you can be certain that she is the GF, lao po or mistress of another man here.

Cheers!

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Re: What is the most important factor in finding girls for sex?

This was just posted on my thread.

Good afternoon,

I received the following from Mike Haines several days ago. He is a red pill man and I don't always agree with his frames, methods, and actions, but this narrative is interesting and it illustrates some of his masculine character traits.

It also caught my attention because he approached an 18 yo girl n he used terms such as unconscious incompetence and unconscious competence, which I have alluded to a few times in this thread. Mike is 30 and he thinks he is old for an 18 yo SYT? Wait till he is an ah pek and then it would be a true litmus test of his masculine strength and emotional mastery.

I have done minimal editing to make it more readable.

Warbird,

Last Saturday afternoon I was sitting around at home bored.

Nightclubs still aren’t in Dublin yet, and I’ve quit online dating, so I have very little to do.

So I went out.

Not to get girls.

(Which I’m trying to avoid right now, for the purposes of spiritual growth.)

But simply to have an adventure.

So anyway, I had a couple of drinks and walked into the city.

There was a massive “bloc party” type thing going on.

Lots of hot chicks around…

I’m walking through the street and I see a rapturously beautiful girl leaning against the wall talking on her phone.

She’s young, small, blonde, with long tanned legs, wearing Air Force 1s and a short so skirt it barely covers her panties.

I walked past her.

A few yards away, I turned back to look at her. She looks at me and then looks away.

Fuck.

OK… ok… fine.

I walk back there, slowly, not looking at her.

Then when I’m a few feet away from her I hold out my hand.

She looks at me but she’s still on the phone.

“Hi, I’m Michael.”

“Hi…”

She puts the phone away immediately.

We get to talking and I sit down beside her.

Turns out she’s 18.

I tell her I’m 30, but she doesn’t seem to mind.

I start teasing her.

She says something (I can’t remember what), and I use it as an excuse to do a take-away.

I make a “weirded out” face and get up as if to leave. “Well, anyway, I gotta go…”

“Shut up!!” she smacks me, grinning.

I’m standing in front of her now.

I get her to stand up and hug me as if I’m about to leave.

We hug… I look into her eyes…

Pupils are massive, big goofy grin = green light.

I kiss her and she kisses me back hungrily.

Her lips are warm and sweet.

I explore her body with my hands.

Her ass is perfect.

So tight and round and perky.

We go off together and get lost in the night…

Not bad for the first cold approach in weeks.

It used to be that I would need a massive state of “momentum” to approach a girl this hot.

And even if I could approach without momentum, I wouldn’t be able to escalate.

But this was SMOOTH.

No momentum is needed.

No buildup.

No fake confidence.

Hadn’t cold approached a girl in maybe 6 weeks.

Hadn’t even spoken to another human being in 7 days.

Walk outside…

See a 9/10…

Approach…

Chat…

Kiss within 3 minutes…

Pull.

SMOOTH.

Effortless.

Natural.

Not trying to do anything.

No desire for any particular outcome.

Happy if she wants to talk to me.

Happy if she does not.

This is the kind of thing you can expect when you get good at this.


It goes from:

Unconscious incompetence

to

Conscious incompetence

to

Conscious competence

and finally to…

Unconscious competence.

That’s the sweet spot.

And that’s the end result of learning this or any other skill.

It becomes programmed into your muscle memory and reflexes so that you can do it without even thinking about it…

And without strenuous effort…

Without fear…

Without lust of result.

Talking to girls may be hard when you're starting out.

It might seem like you're fighting an uphill struggle to remember to do 13 different things, and it's just too complex.

But like anything else, it becomes more and more effortless over time.

Everything is hard before it's easy.


Yup, he was smooth and he didn't give two hoots about the outcome.

Cheers!

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