Do you regret marrying?

[wolfgang127]

Look forward, why regret? Even its not the best of marriage, i believe there is some happier times spent together. So why don't focus on the positive instead of the negative part? It just makes you more miserable.

[Felixang]

its best to be single but at the same time best to have a lot of sex partners or lovers with mutual understanding and care for each other. haha

[breastlover]

47 yo, single.

I'd love to do whatever I want, whenever I want. No commitment whatsoever.
Go KTV, drinking, late night whatsoever, no problem.

No need give red packet during CNY, hahaha

Never regret it to be single.

[Kuan Aik Hong]

Originally Posted by breastlover

47 yo, single.

I'd love to do whatever I want, whenever I want. No commitment whatsoever.
Go KTV, drinking, late night whatsoever, no problem.

No need give red packet during CNY, hahaha

Never regret it to be single.

Congrats!!!!!I feel so happy for you too....Single is freedom.. Dont ever settle down because of loneliness . Everyone eventually will be alone when die....

[maxsee]

If a person idea of getting maried is having great sexs and physical intimacy whatsnot. Do everyone a favor and please dun get married. Coz it merely shows ur level of immaturity. There is definitely more to marriage then having fantastic physical initmacy.

You can be young and yet matured. But similarly you can be old and yet behave like a kid.

[jnudes]

Originally Posted by Kuan Aik Hong

Congrats!!!!!I feel so happy for you too....Single is freedom.. Dont ever settle down because of loneliness . Everyone eventually will be alone when die....

YES single life give me 100% freedom. I cope with my loneliness by going for regular exercise and travelling few times in a year.

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by maxsee

If a person idea of getting maried is having great sexs and physical intimacy whatsnot. Do everyone a favor and please dun get married. Coz it merely shows ur level of immaturity. There is definitely more to marriage then having fantastic physical initmacy.

You can be young and yet matured. But similarly you can be old and yet behave like a kid.

lol. really?
then where do you have great sex and physical intimacy then? with other people? if not in marriage then where?

naturally there is more. But this is a key part of marriage.
anyone thinks having a sexless marriage or a marriage with little intimacy and stale is going to work? tradition is that the Chinese or other races already bless you to have descendants upon marriage, hence the culture to spend the first night together in bed.

English lesson.
"consummate"
To make something official; usually used in a sense with making a marriage official via sexual intercourse.

so you don't consummate, (no offspring naturally) but you can also say the marriage is not official. hence some people I know void their marriage using this clause in court.

https://singaporelegaladvice.com/law...ul-a-marriage/

[Kuan Aik Hong]

Originally Posted by jnudes

YES single life give me 100% freedom. I cope with my loneliness by going for regular exercise and travelling few times in a year.

Pamper yourself more is better right....As long you can cope with loneliness the world really belongs to you. ..Most people suffers because they afraid of loneliness. As long you enjoy loneliness is define as solitude . No commitments , free n easy ...

[jnudes]

Originally Posted by Kuan Aik Hong

Pamper yourself more is better right....As long you can cope with loneliness the world really belongs to you. ..Most people suffers because they afraid of loneliness. As long you enjoy loneliness is define as solitude . No commitments , free n easy ...

Yes I enjoy my loneliness....even I am exercising alone in the park....not only me, I saw senior citizens doing it too.

There are one memorable moment which I cannot forget. Time was around 6 a.m. morning at one kopitiam. There are 5 male customers sitting on 5 different tables in one long row. The table is round and can accommodate 5 people in one table.

And the age of customers varies from me under 40 years, 40s, 50s, 60s and 70s. We are strangers and unknown to each other. We are there for our morning breakfast. First time in life I saw so many individual customers eating alone at the same time and I can see more and more people are eating alone regardless of their age and marital status.

Times have really changed over the last 20 years where I hate to eat alone in a cafe. Now it has become quite normal for me. Once you get married there are huge commitment need to be handled not only for short term but lifetime. Many marriage failed because they cannot and do not know how to solve their own problem, more worse if the other half is super demanding.

[Kuan Aik Hong]

Originally Posted by jnudes

Yes I enjoy my loneliness....even I am exercising alone in the park....not only me, I saw senior citizens doing it too.

There are one memorable moment which I cannot forget. Time was around 6 a.m. morning at one kopitiam. There are 5 male customers sitting on 5 different tables in one long row. The table is round and can accommodate 5 people in one table.

And the age of customers varies from me under 40 years, 40s, 50s, 60s and 70s. We are strangers and unknown to each other. We are there for our morning breakfast. First time in life I saw so many individual customers eating alone at the same time and I can see more and more people are eating alone regardless of their age and marital status.

Times have really changed over the last 20 years where I hate to eat alone in a cafe. Now it has become quite normal for me. Once you get married there are huge commitment need to be handled not only for short term but lifetime. Many marriage failed because they cannot and do not know how to solve their own problem, more worse if the other half is super demanding.

Ya I too observe the new phenomenon so many guys are alone too. Many of my friends has relationship problems too. Mostly regret and hoping to be single . Marriage is a real commitment in terms of emotion , money , time , family ....Single still is the best if cant commit...

[Vectra]

Originally Posted by Kuan Aik Hong

Pamper yourself more is better right....As long you can cope with loneliness the world really belongs to you. ..Most people suffers because they afraid of loneliness. As long you enjoy loneliness is define as solitude . No commitments , free n easy ...

Saw on FB that says, "I am alone, not lonely". Being alone is better state to know and decide what you want

[Vectra]

Originally Posted by jnudes

And the age of customers varies from me under 40 years, 40s, 50s, 60s and 70s. We are strangers and unknown to each other. We are there for our morning breakfast. First time in life I saw so many individual customers eating alone at the same time and I can see more and more people are eating alone regardless of their age and marital status.

Ppl in the 40s upward are able to take a breather. Lower age are still studying, slogging to carve a career, get hitch and produce offspring etc... Just a thought

[seanylit]

I think what is missing is that when a couple gets married, it is because of "love" and yet they did not communicate

1. what is their expectation of married life
2. how many and when to have kids
3. financial responsibility of each other to the family
4. retirement planning, family expenses budgeting etc etc
5. how to bring up the kids
6. whether to stay with parents
7. sexually compatibility

etc etc...

[Ngengheng]

Modern woman are pampered and too demanding . Only wants benefits and no responsibility . Wants to have good lifes and expect guys to hold the responsibilities . They knows the law well and always thinks that man should give in to them. Is very tough for guys nowadays and is better to be single .

[jnudes]

I saw, listened and heard from afar my brother-in-law complaining of my sister in front of my father non-stop for over 2 hours. He is born 1970 year of Dog. Imagine hearing one dog barking non stop for two hours. He disturbed my sleep but I kept my patience during that time as I did not want to fight with him. This happened one month short of their 6th anniversary wedding. From loving happy wedding become like this. Some more my sister have two daughters to take care of. The main issue money not enough to spend. He even willing to divorce and ask my sister to marry rich man. But this issue did not arise when they just got married. Why only now?