Married To Someone Rather Boring Sexlife

[sandymich]

How many of you are long-time married folks and wish your spouse was more sexually adventurous and playful?

[qissyalynne]

Originally Posted by sandymich

How many of you are long-time married folks and wish your spouse was more sexually adventurous and playful?

what happened with yours?

[cavemao]

11 years, first 3-4 years waas pretty good sex life, but baby come out only, sex life drop by 80%, then 2 years ago, tio caught by wife. remaining 20% also gone. now is live like a dog and zero sex.... just nice also, last 18 months or so, due to covid 19, sex industry is dead also (or at least half dead, and the remaining alive ones chop carrot or too dangerous to go), can only depend on the ever reliable mr left hand

[loveacer]

Sammy becomes sandy?

[rototime]

What do you mean by tio caught? you had an affair? and you're still married? Then still can salvage lah.

Likely, you use left hand, and she will be eating out. Otherwise, she will be using her fingers as well.

For me. over 20 years.. first 10 years was good till I felt boring. Then after introducing new members to the family, she started slowing down and rejecting sex, and can go dry for months, and some years. zero throughout the entire year.

Reach mid 40's. I gave myself an ultimatum. try to revive our sex or I go look somewhere else.. It worked. Hence, I have neve had a single paid sex in my entire adult life.

Try revive lah.. help out at home, be home on time, show concern (must be genuine). start slight body contact, but not hug etc..

For me. easy as I didn't tio caught for anything. just use my hands to do the magic.. Massage, and essential oil.. this seems to work like WD40 on rusted hinge..

Originally Posted by cavemao

11 years, first 3-4 years waas pretty good sex life, but baby come out only, sex life drop by 80%, then 2 years ago, tio caught by wife. remaining 20% also gone. now is live like a dog and zero sex.... just nice also, last 18 months or so, due to covid 19, sex industry is dead also (or at least half dead, and the remaining alive ones chop carrot or too dangerous to go), can only depend on the ever reliable mr left hand

[Assman69]

12 years , before have kids still quite regularly. After 2 kids getting lesser. Now once a week or once every 2 weeks

[Continental]

Originally Posted by cavemao

11 years, first 3-4 years waas pretty good sex life, but baby come out only, sex life drop by 80%, then 2 years ago, tio caught by wife. remaining 20% also gone. now is live like a dog and zero sex.... just nice also, last 18 months or so, due to covid 19, sex industry is dead also (or at least half dead, and the remaining alive ones chop carrot or too dangerous to go), can only depend on the ever reliable mr left hand

For me, i have to use my right hand because i am right-handed. So i am mr right hand

[acidicavex]

Hmm TS are you doing QNA your past post is weird with the gender changing suddenly female suddenly male

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by sandymich

How many of you are long-time married folks and wish your spouse was more sexually adventurous and playful?

NEVER get married for sex. You'll be doomed to disappointment.

Marriage is for companionship and procreation. If you want to enjoy sex then please support my advertisers.

[Clarets]

Originally Posted by acidicavex

Hmm TS are you doing QNA your past post is weird with the gender changing suddenly female suddenly male

Check his/her IC and see what it states

[cavemao]

Originally Posted by Continental

For me, i have to use my right hand because i am right-handed. So i am mr right hand

right hand need to click the mouse leh

[cavemao]

Originally Posted by rototime

What do you mean by tio caught? you had an affair? and you're still married? Then still can salvage lah.

Likely, you use left hand, and she will be eating out. Otherwise, she will be using her fingers as well.

For me. over 20 years.. first 10 years was good till I felt boring. Then after introducing new members to the family, she started slowing down and rejecting sex, and can go dry for months, and some years. zero throughout the entire year.

Reach mid 40's. I gave myself an ultimatum. try to revive our sex or I go look somewhere else.. It worked. Hence, I have neve had a single paid sex in my entire adult life.

Try revive lah.. help out at home, be home on time, show concern (must be genuine). start slight body contact, but not hug etc..

For me. easy as I didn't tio caught for anything. just use my hands to do the magic.. Massage, and essential oil.. this seems to work like WD40 on rusted hinge..

mine is tio caught watching porn, tio caught going siam diu, tio caught for FL.....

so over the years dwindle.... nowadays slight body contact only she will angry, on surface with kid and outside is like normal family lah got chit chat, got joke, but underlying current is strong.... oh well.....

[momotea]

it's really challenge to maintain the nice sex drive , after such a long marriage .

[skihon]

Mine after 1 yr already sexless. Wife like no sex drive. Most of the time i ask for it, then soon i tired of asking so end up i ask mr. Right to help sometime mr. Left help when times Mr. Right injure.

[sexcision]

Originally Posted by cavemao

mine is tio caught watching porn, tio caught going siam diu, tio caught for FL.....

so over the years dwindle.... nowadays slight body contact only she will angry, on surface with kid and outside is like normal family lah got chit chat, got joke, but underlying current is strong.... oh well.....

got caught with FL, or go Siam tiu mabe understand that she get angry. but watching porn?? whats wrong with watching porn? lol