How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type

[warbird]

Originally Posted by repairman

Would just like to share a recent experience. A few months back on Wechat, added this lady (She is a PRC milf in her 30s with a son in school, and separated from her husband) and she added me back. So during that time was already reading this forum and was just very direct with her in telling that I wish to have sex with her. She suggested that we meet first to see if we are compatible and also asked for my height. During the first meeting we just chat normally for about an hour, and after that even though I was nervous, I just said that let's go to the hotel, which was nearby. That was where we had our first session. About a week later, I told her that I wanted to do again and will book a hotel room and wait for her. Than we had our second session. The actual sex session lasted about 30 minutes each. She did message to say I was quite 猛, and probably her 小妹妹有待开发.

But slowly afterwards, she started to not reply my Wechat messages (well she just started her new job and said she was very tired). I did manage to try video call once. Than I kept messaging her as I missed her quite badly (she was quite tight and busty) Somehow I knew I was starting to be needy. She did tell me she will contact me when she has adjusted to her work. However I think I still did not heed bro WB advice that we MEN are the PRIZE. I video-ed her again today on Wechat and she rejected it along with previous messages. Than when I tried a 2nd time I realised she has added me to the blocked list (aka 拉黑). With some mixed emotions (confused, sad, anger) I deleted her contact from my list.

I believe there are a few learning points from my failed experience I can think of:

1. Knowing what I want to get out of this relationship which was quite blurry and putting my emotions into it though I just wanted sex (I think I wanted sex and also to KC her, but failed big time)

2. Not being needy and giving her space. Telling myself that I am the PRIZE and she should be the one finding me instead (This is really harder than it sounds)

3. Not being overly sensitive to her actions or inaction and react accordingly (In my case would be not contacting her and giving her space since she already mentioned it)

Hope other bros can also advice accordingly and of course learn from my experience.

PS: Pardon my long post

Cheers
repairman

Bro, thanks so much for your detailed FR.

Your problem is a very common one. I hv had similar encounters in my younger days.

Is she your type of woman? Better forget her and move on. Younger and prettier women are waiting for you.

Why did u fail? You had the wrong frames and mindset. You got needy and you had some emotional attachment to her. She became the PRIZE. When she tried to pull away, you did exactly what 99.99% of men would do. You became more needy n desperate. At that point, you should hv pulled back n NOT contact her anymore. It's very likely she would contact you instead. Actually, she might even start chasing you.

A MAN must be the PRIZE the first second he meets a woman of his type until the last second he is with her. It doesn't matter if their relationship lasts three days or 30 years.

Very hard to do because if your subconscious mind doesn't believe you're the PRIZE, your body language, facial microexpressions, eye contact and voice tonality will betray you. She will know you're faking it n she is the PRIZE.


That is why all the naysayers think my theory n methods are all BS. Because they hv failed miserably for the exact same reason.

Originally Posted by Hayabusa1

You gt give her any $$?

Bro, tks.

Originally Posted by repairman

Dear bro Hayabusa1,

Nope I did not give her any money, only paid for drinks during our first meet up and for the hotel rooms on both occasions. We did mention on going out for a meal but that has yet to materialise as she has already blocked me.

Cheers
repairman

Bro, in your case money is of little importance unless she is a FL or WL.

Originally Posted by FreebiezWanker

Bro, No money no pussy wan...

Bro, tks.

Originally Posted by thehelpinghand

Bro, you knew your flaws and nothing much to advise here. Move on since your objective met.

You should behave as though there are 200 gals farking you daily. If I am you will not bother to msg her.

Her loss and not yours.

Bro, tks.

Originally Posted by commodity

Treat this like a commodity trading.

Originally Posted by Krisantimum

Fully agreed, it is her loss.

Cheers.

Originally Posted by kilobarsilver

Or bars of silver trading also can.

Bros. tks.

Originally Posted by repairman

Hi bro, probably you are right in that money plays a certain role, but I did manage to get into her pussy twice. Somehow I think my attitude and behavior is the more critical factor here. Of course I could be underestimating the effect of money.

Thank you bro, I think the mindset is indeed important. I should be working more on it.

Dear bros, currently I have not touched any form of stocks or trading yet, can I take it as "you win some, you lose some"? Or you do meant something much deeper?

Bro. tks.

I wish more samsters would share their successes n failures here.

It's a great learning experience for me n hopefully for all.

I like to hear from females in this forum too.

Originally Posted by VicBruse

Bro repairman, I think you should left her alone for a while before contacting her again

I don't think bro Repairman should initiate ctc w/ her again.

Originally Posted by SBMEDSUP

wait for her to contact you. no loss since she already blocked u.

Bro, good advice.

Cheers to all samsters,

Bro WB

[treff]

Hi Warbird:

It's really been a long time, I will contribute my take on keeping attractive girls of our type:

It isn't that easy to succeed with ladies, first of all we have to attune our characteristics. Secondly, we have to be able to impress them by our ability to handle situations. Thirdly, one has to be humble enough to study those charismatic friends who are able to keep attractive ladies by their side. And Warbird is right, we should never cling on to them, we should never give in to their whims, we should never melt when they cry, we should play our cards cool and calm like in order to keep them. Nowadays a lot of men give in to girls, carry bags for them, give in to their tantrums, and end up losing their girlfriends to those cool bad men. And it is always good to have this belief, if we free the bird from a cage, if it likes us well enough, it will automatically fly back to us. That should be the way we handle them if we intend to keep them. A lot of men screw up during their first impression because when they meet attractive girls of their type, they clamp up, or talk too much, do not know what to do, gets too nervous and panicky and hence make the first bad impression thereby not having any more second chances.

[blackthorn]

Originally Posted by warbird

Is she your type of woman? Better forget her and move on. Younger and prettier women are waiting for you.

Why did u fail? You had the wrong frames and mindset. You got needy and you had some emotional attachment to her. She became the PRIZE. When she tried to pull away, you did exactly what 99.99% of men would do. You became more needy n desperate. At that point, you should hv pulled back n NOT contact her anymore. It's very likely she would contact you instead. Actually, she might even start chasing you.

A MAN must be the PRIZE the first second he meets a woman of his type until the last second he is with her. It doesn't matter if their relationship lasts three days or 30 years.

Very hard to do because if your subconscious mind doesn't believe you're the PRIZE, your body language, facial microexpressions, eye contact and voice tonality will betray you. She will know you're faking it n she is the PRIZE.


That is why all the naysayers think my theory n methods are all BS. Because they hv failed miserably for the exact same reason.


Cheers to all samsters,

Bro WB

Bro WB

Nice reply to bro repairman forum.

I hope to gather more tips here.

Thanks alot.

[robotsnow]

Originally Posted by treff

And it is always good to have this belief, if we free the bird from a cage, if it likes us well enough, it will automatically fly back to us. That should be the way we handle them if we intend to keep them. A lot of men screw up during their first impression because when they meet attractive girls of their type, they clamp up, or talk too much, do not know what to do, gets too nervous and panicky and hence make the first bad impression thereby not having any more second chances.

Bro, thanks for sharing.

Nothing is easy but we all need to practice and more practice.

All men or even bro WB here will face rejections. Maybe out of 10 we hv success with 1. So keep going and no reason to stop.

I take failures as positives to do more and improve myself.

We can pamper any gilr but we should also stop when enough of pampering. Let her feel her losses and not us men.

See some woman likes this handbag but unwilling to buy herself, so she find a guy who likes her to buy for her using flirtations.

Guys can do so too, that was to say ok will buy for you but in the last minute you cannot turn up and give a excuse.

Cheers.

[repairman]

Thank you bro WB and other bros for your replies. The advice and reminders I will keep it close to my heart. Will really need time to adjust my mindset and improve on my self mastery/emotional control.
Another quote from bro WB, seek to improve myself daily in every way.

Somehow after deleting her, I find myself not really thinking about her so much anymore.

The only thing I should tell myself daily is: I am the PRIZE and its the girl's loss if she rejects or don't come back to me (of course as a man, we must still treat the lady with respect and necessary affection while she is with us).

It's time to move on and seek greener pastures. Hope more bros can share your experiences. Of course would love to hear from the ladies as they might offer a totally different point of view or give us much needed pointers.

Cheers
Repairman

[sohbuckkong]

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Originally Posted by treff

Hi.......
It's really been a........... A lot of men screw up during their first impression because when they meet attractive girls of their type, they clamp up, or talk too much, do not know what to do, gets too nervous and panicky and hence make the first bad impression thereby not having any more second chances.

OK I have this to share with members.

Just about a month ago, on 12th July 2019, whilst I was in genting highland, I met a China girl from Wuhan and we fell in love. She's 32 and I'm in my early 60s. She's a pretty girl (6.5/10), very fair ,slim and medium height, a very soft spoken lady.

Why was she in Genting:- she told me she was tricked to go genting by her lady cousin who told her she will be coming to genting to work, and when she arrived, it was actually prostitution. She wanted to return back to China but she can't change the air ticket to another date and so she remain in genting for the next 10 days.

How did we meet:~ on one Fri, genting room was all full and I need to have one room and so my friend ask around and finally found this China girl , miss Zhang, who willing to sell her room just for 80ringget. At this point of time, I only saw a photo of Zhang, a cute looking girl who was suppose to be a freelance pros(tricked by her cousin). My friend know her cousin who was a regular pros in genting and it was she who intro ms Zhang to my friend.

So on this fri, she waited for me in her room. I finally arrived ,knock at the door and she opened the door. I was never disappointed to see her and after passing her the money for the hotel room, I told her I wish to book her and she agreed, ST 200ringget. She don't rush and when I told her I wish to do it slowly she agreed too. After the deed she even agreed to stay with me and I was very surprised. And so upon seeing her being so obliging, I auto pass her 300ringget instead of 200ringget. She told me she was very touched by my generosity.

And then I ask her isit OK if she stay with me for the night and she agreed. And the best part was there were no mention of how much I got to pay her. It was foc.

From this Friday onwards, she stayed with me for the next 10days until she returned back to China and we stayed together in genting highland as gf bf.

She told me, her cousin scolded her when she declined to work as pros as she had fork out a lot of money to fly to Kuala Lumpur. Of course in genting, I did pass her 300rm each time when I won in casiNo, For this 10days, I total gave her sg400.

For the first few days, I everyday fuck her as a lover, everyday she slept fully naked next to me and she would curl her legs round me, Everyday I caress her and play with her vagina, every night I lick and suck her cheebye. She would do anything that I request, every morning she prepared my toothbrush and towel. She didn't freelance as she was with me throughout the next 10 days. When she was with me, she didn't even ask me a single cent, it's all foc.

I told her exactly my status and she told me she's just a simple girl and hv no qualms to live like a rich women.

She's Now in China working as a salesgirl and I'm in Singapore, everyday we wechat, she even introduce her mother to me thru wechat video. Of course in Singapore I sent her sg$300 every month. She didn't ask, I auto give it to her because I believe she was telling me the truth that her salary was 2000rmb per mth and she's paying rent of 800rmb per month and she left only 1200rmb.

She's from Wuhan and Oct I will fly to Wuhan to meet her.

So, was she bluffing me? I don't think so. If she's not bluffing, then I think I'm a very lucky man to have found such a pretty and young girl who would fall in love with me. Because of the big age gap and the fact that I'm Not a rich men, I hesitate on this relationship but I was thinking I should be proud as most men will envy me.

Well, so how is our relationship going to develop from here, of course I don't know so hang on, I shall post my reports here for members to follow.

[HelplessGal]

Originally Posted by sohbuckkong

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OK I have this to share with members.

Just about a month ago, on 12th July 2019, whilst I was in genting highland, I met a China girl from Wuhan and we fell in love. She's 32 and I'm in my early 60s. She's a pretty girl (6.5/10), very fair ,slim and medium height, a very soft spoken lady.

Why was she in Genting:- she told me she was tricked to go genting by her lady cousin who told her she will be coming to genting to work, and when she arrived, it was actually prostitution. She wanted to return back to China but she can't change the air ticket to another date and so she remain in genting for the next 10 days.

How did we meet:~ on one Fri, genting room was all full and I need to have one room and so my friend ask around and finally found this China girl , miss Zhang, who willing to sell her room just for 80ringget. At this point of time, I only saw a photo of Zhang, a cute looking girl who was suppose to be a freelance pros(tricked by her cousin). My friend know her cousin who was a regular pros in genting and it was she who intro ms Zhang to my friend.

So on this fri, she waited for me in her room. I finally arrived ,knock at the door and she opened the door. I was never disappointed to see her and after passing her the money for the hotel room, I told her I wish to book her and she agreed, ST 200ringget. She don't rush and when I told her I wish to do it slowly she agreed too. After the deed she even agreed to stay with me and I was very surprised. And so upon seeing her being so obliging, I auto pass her 300ringget instead of 200ringget. She told me she was very touched by my generosity.

And then I ask her isit OK if she stay with me for the night and she agreed. And the best part was there were no mention of how much I got to pay her. It was foc.

From this Friday onwards, she stayed with me for the next 10days until she returned back to China and we stayed together in genting highland as gf bf.

She told me, her cousin scolded her when she declined to work as pros as she had fork out a lot of money to fly to Kuala Lumpur. Of course in genting, I did pass her 300rm each time when I won in casiNo, For this 10days, I total gave her sg400.

For the first few days, I everyday fuck her as a lover, everyday she slept fully naked next to me and she would curl her legs round me, Everyday I caress her and play with her vagina, every night I lick and suck her cheebye. She would do anything that I request, every morning she prepared my toothbrush and towel. She didn't freelance as she was with me throughout the next 10 days. When she was with me, she didn't even ask me a single cent, it's all foc.

I told her exactly my status and she told me she's just a simple girl and hv no qualms to live like a rich women.

She's Now in China working as a salesgirl and I'm in Singapore, everyday we wechat, she even introduce her mother to me thru wechat video. Of course in Singapore I sent her sg$300 every month. She didn't ask, I auto give it to her because I believe she was telling me the truth that her salary was 2000rmb per mth and she's paying rent of 800rmb per month and she left only 1200rmb.

She's from Wuhan and Oct I will fly to Wuhan to meet her.

So, was she bluffing me? I don't think so. If she's not bluffing, then I think I'm a very lucky man to have found such a pretty and young girl who would fall in love with me. Because of the big age gap and the fact that I'm Not a rich men, I hesitate on this relationship but I was thinking I should be proud as most men will envy me.

Well, so how is our relationship going to develop from here, of course I don't know so hang on, I shall post my reports here for members to follow.

You are really a fool cos this PRC lady will make use of you till she gets PR citizenship.Once they get PR citizenships, they will dump SG men. I have seen countless uncles being ruined by their ex wives who became PR citizens.

[HelplessGal]

Originally Posted by treff

Hi Warbird:

It's really been a long time, I will contribute my take on keeping attractive girls of our type:

It isn't that easy to succeed with ladies, first of all we have to attune our characteristics. Secondly, we have to be able to impress them by our ability to handle situations. Thirdly, one has to be humble enough to study those charismatic friends who are able to keep attractive ladies by their side. And Warbird is right, we should never cling on to them, we should never give in to their whims, we should never melt when they cry, we should play our cards cool and calm like in order to keep them. Nowadays a lot of men give in to girls, carry bags for them, give in to their tantrums, and end up losing their girlfriends to those cool bad men. And it is always good to have this belief, if we free the bird from a cage, if it likes us well enough, it will automatically fly back to us. That should be the way we handle them if we intend to keep them. A lot of men screw up during their first impression because when they meet attractive girls of their type, they clamp up, or talk too much, do not know what to do, gets too nervous and panicky and hence make the first bad impression thereby not having any more second chances.

No man likes women who are self entitled regardless of whether they are attractive or not.

[HelplessGal]

Originally Posted by repairman

Thank you bro WB and other bros for your replies. The advice and reminders I will keep it close to my heart. Will really need time to adjust my mindset and improve on my self mastery/emotional control.
Another quote from bro WB, seek to improve myself daily in every way.

Somehow after deleting her, I find myself not really thinking about her so much anymore.

The only thing I should tell myself daily is: I am the PRIZE and its the girl's loss if she rejects or don't come back to me (of course as a man, we must still treat the lady with respect and necessary affection while she is with us).

It's time to move on and seek greener pastures. Hope more bros can share your experiences. Of course would love to hear from the ladies as they might offer a totally different point of view or give us much needed pointers.

Cheers
Repairman

Repairman, Adding you to the blocked list means she was not keen in meeting you anymore after your meetups with her. If you happen to meet a lady who is kind hearted and honest, pls do not take advantage of her kindness.

[HelplessGal]

Originally Posted by warbird

Bro, thanks so much for your detailed FR.

Your problem is a very common one. I hv had similar encounters in my younger days.

Is she your type of woman? Better forget her and move on. Younger and prettier women are waiting for you.

Why did u fail? You had the wrong frames and mindset. You got needy and you had some emotional attachment to her. She became the PRIZE. When she tried to pull away, you did exactly what 99.99% of men would do. You became more needy n desperate. At that point, you should hv pulled back n NOT contact her anymore. It's very likely she would contact you instead. Actually, she might even start chasing you.

A MAN must be the PRIZE the first second he meets a woman of his type until the last second he is with her. It doesn't matter if their relationship lasts three days or 30 years.

Very hard to do because if your subconscious mind doesn't believe you're the PRIZE, your body language, facial microexpressions, eye contact and voice tonality will betray you. She will know you're faking it n she is the PRIZE.


That is why all the naysayers think my theory n methods are all BS. Because they hv failed miserably for the exact same reason.



Bro, tks.



Bro, in your case money is of little importance unless she is a FL or WL.




Bro, tks.



Bro, tks.







Bros. tks.



Bro. tks.

I wish more samsters would share their successes n failures here.

It's a great learning experience for me n hopefully for all.

I like to hear from females in this forum too.



I don't think bro Repairman should initiate ctc w/ her again.



Bro, good advice.

Cheers to all samsters,

Bro WB

Warbird, are you implying that a man or woman being the prize has to be self entitled? pls clarify

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by HelplessGal

You are really a fool cos this PRC lady will make use of you till she gets PR citizenship.Once they get PR citizenships, they will dump SG men. I have seen countless uncles being ruined by their ex wives who became PR citizens.

Haha...you dun follwo bro SBK...I had read his forum since 2006...he is a cheongster that love casino and cheongster...go thru his history and will know...

Originally Posted by sohbuckkong

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Well, so how is our relationship going to develop from here, of course I don't know so hang on, I shall post my reports here for members to follow.

nice catch..sounded like a similar story back in 2000 when few of us went to Beijing and then a ktv gal slept with my friend for 4 nights without asking for money...

[sohbuckkong]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Haha...you dun follwo bro SBK...I had read his forum since 2006...he is a cheongster that love casino and cheongster...go thru his history and will know...

nice catch..sounded like a similar story back in 2000 when few of us went to Beijing and then a ktv gal slept with my friend for 4 nights without asking for money...

Yes, my whole entire life was spent on going casinos in Genting highland. I started going Genting highland in 1975 and have been going there regularly until now. It was in genting highland that a malaysian lady, somebody mistress, introduced a Malaysian beauty queen to me and for about 6months she was my gf. She was a crowned Miss Malaysia.

Although always poor because of my gambling habits, I led a colourful carefree life.

Before 2006, I've never Cheong any other country except Malaysia genting highland, so I have miss out alot of very good cheonging stuffs such as in hadyai, batam, balai, dong guan etc.....I guess 20yrs ago, that was the prime time to Cheong such as in tanjong Batu where one can inspect the cewek cheebye before booking them. Moreover spore still don't have laws to prosecute people who patronise underage pros overseas which was rampant in dong guan china etc........... Those were the cheonging heydays.
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Just like a comet, sometimes in life we do get good stuff. Talking about this Wuhan lady I got to know just last month, of course it's still too early for me to say that it's a good catch. But in my judgement I believe she was genuine, and I know some may say.... Oh love is blind, however I'm not the type of person who can easily be swept away just because somebody is good to me.

To know the truth of a person involve many many things eg how he deal with other people, how she deal with circumstances , how he deal with an impromptu situations, etc etc.... many many things, with all these I believe she's a genuine simple girl who was in Genting highland because she was mislead by her cousin.

Although a simple girl, she's also quite an attractive lady. Yesterday she told me she wanted to bring me to see her mother when I go Wuhan in October.

Of course we all know that without money as an ingredient, a genuine relationship for those 30yrs old and above is very un un unlikely to happen. Of course this don't apply to young love whose love were always very true and have nothing to do with money.

[Boarding]

Originally Posted by HelplessGal

Warbird, are you implying that a man or woman being the prize has to be self entitled? pls clarify

Let me try to clarify.

If man dun think he is the PRIZE then he will be sucking to the gal and become desperate needy.

Woman always think she was the PRIZE and will try to milk away the cow that feeds her. Or killed the golden goose.

Nobody should be self entitled. You either think you are the PRIZE or not.

I prefer to hv self mastery control and behave as I am the PRIZE.

Bro WB, your comment pls.

[sohbuckkong]

In Cambodia about 3 years ago:-
I and my friend went to pp Riverside to look for wls and finally my friend choose a Cambodian girl while I choose a young Cambodian girl called Amy.

Soon my friend and his lady (not pretty,) became gf bf and each time when we go sihanoukville, his gf will come along and of course my friend paid her some money. At this time, they were already seriously discussing plans to open a pub at riverside and finally we negotiated with a landlord to rent her place to run as a pub at Riverside.

Whilst waiting for the actual takeover date, and when we wanted to go sihanoukville my friends Cambodian gf would as usual come along and his gf persuaded my girl Amy to come along too(both worked in the same pub) I don't want amy to come because I don't have enough money to pay her to be with me for 10days in sihanoukville and so I told her I had only usd100 to spare and to my surprise, Amy agreed to accompany me for 10 days for only usd100.

Amy is a pretty syt short Cambodian girl who look more like 17yrs old but who cares when she told me she's 18. When she wanted to enter the casino, the security stop her and check her id to make sure she's above 18. Got once she tie her hair into a ponytail and wow, she looks like a secondary school student and my friend, his gf and myself would giggle.

In sihanoukville, Amy treated me like a king, she served me in every way, go market use her money buy prawns, durians etc for me to eat, when I go casino, she will wait in the room for me to return as though waiting for me to return to fuck her. On bed, there's no restrictions, we fuck everyday, very tight n nice pussy and sometimes she will also give me bbbj. On the last day when 4 of us were inside the bus from sihanoukville going back to pp, I gave her my ipad and she was so happy.

One may wonder, why Amy , a pretty syt age 18 or less, was so good to me, trying her very best to Convince me that she genuinely love me and wanted me to be her bf? The answer was that both, Amy and my friend gf, hope that I would be as generous as my friend and would also open a business such as a pub and let them run the show. Of course right from the beginning I already suspected this ploy and so I never fall into this trap. Moreover, it was my friend gf who taught Amy every move on how and what to do to me.

However, my friend fall into his Cambodian gf trap.....He did open a pub, managed by his gf, pub lasted for 2yrs but finally closed, possibly sold away and money she pocket it. What a waste.

[AgentLowRain]

Originally Posted by blackthorn

Bro WB

Nice reply to bro repairman forum.

I hope to gather more tips here.

Thanks alot.

Agreed, very nice reply.

I also hope to learn more here.

Cheers.