Do you ever feel guilty? - Page 2

blackdevil · #16 07-01-2013, 05:55 PM

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Originally Posted by mseveninch

I and my OC - already ended our sexual deeds for a very long time due to her medical & physical condition after a severe accident. I had her permission on outside meals to replace her duties as a wife. She also contemplate that I divorce her and remarry someone else or take one companion which she had chosen - I refused.

Its has been 25 years now since our last deeds.

Whenever I had a meals outside - I still feel guilty because only me is done not her. She can't feel anything. As a man - I had my needs too but feel guilty although I don't do it often. Once or twice a month.

Btw - OC already paralyze from neck downward after the accident.

One word....Respect!

limsuhup · #17 07-01-2013, 09:37 PM

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Originally Posted by mseveninch

I and my OC - already ended our sexual deeds for a very long time due to her medical & physical condition after a severe accident. I had her permission on outside meals to replace her duties as a wife. She also contemplate that I divorce her and remarry someone else or take one companion which she had chosen - I refused.

Its has been 25 years now since our last deeds.

Whenever I had a meals outside - I still feel guilty because only me is done not her. She can't feel anything. As a man - I had my needs too but feel guilty although I don't do it often. Once or twice a month.

Btw - OC already paralyze from neck downward after the accident.

Respect u bro not easy to luv 25 yrs..

redhun · #18 07-01-2013, 10:01 PM

Im on the verge of divorce, finally met a man i can connect so much wth. His existence made me let go of someone whom i cudnt let go off fr years. I've nvr cheated on my spouse, but i really want to be wth him. I can sense his liking fr me, but he kept refusing me. I feel so stupid!

Meow^^ · #19 07-01-2013, 10:41 PM

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Originally Posted by redhun

Im on the verge of divorce, finally met a man i can connect so much wth. His existence made me let go of someone whom i cudnt let go off fr years. I've nvr cheated on my spouse, but i really want to be wth him. I can sense his liking fr me, but he kept refusing me. I feel so stupid!

wow. don't fall too deep or things would be nice. Let natural take it course.

deludedgal · #20 07-01-2013, 10:53 PM

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Originally Posted by redhun

Im on the verge of divorce, finally met a man i can connect so much wth. His existence made me let go of someone whom i cudnt let go off fr years. I've nvr cheated on my spouse, but i really want to be wth him. I can sense his liking fr me, but he kept refusing me. I feel so stupid!

hmmm.. but once u together with him u sure thats what u want? or its just the moment..

redhun · #21 07-01-2013, 11:21 PM

Hes married, i dun want to b a home wrecker, but i really want to be wth him. But he doesnt wants us to be more thn good friends. If hes willing to accept me, i m ready fr a no string attached relationship wth him, i ve never done it b4 but wth him, im willing.

Meow^^ · #22 07-01-2013, 11:42 PM

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Originally Posted by redhun

Hes married, i dun want to b a home wrecker, but i really want to be wth him. But he doesnt wants us to be more thn good friends. If hes willing to accept me, i m ready fr a no string attached relationship wth him, i ve never done it b4 but wth him, im willing.

If you are using logically thinking you will know that you can't do it. But if you are using feeling to guide you, you would wanna be with him no matter what.

If he say 'Yes', have you think how long can both of you be together? What happen after that? Or you may just want to have the moment of 'now' and don't want to rationale the out come?

Take a little bit more time to go through it, it's not just you and him..it involves a lot of other people....

redhun · #23 08-01-2013, 08:02 AM

I know, thts whats been holding him back i guess, bcos it involves others. I guess i d just have to accept the fact tht there will nvr be a"together" fr us. Having hard time letting him go

deathnitez · #24 08-01-2013, 08:05 AM

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Originally Posted by redhun

I know, thts whats been holding him back i guess, bcos it involves others. I guess i d just have to accept the fact tht there will nvr be a"together" fr us. Having hard time letting him go

Yeah sometimes no string attached relationship can be more comfortable then getting married. Impulse marriage sometimes will lead to more pain. As time passes you will most likely let him go. good luck

ah rat · #25 08-01-2013, 08:07 AM

Sis redhun,do u treat him as FB

Meow^^ · #26 08-01-2013, 08:42 AM

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Originally Posted by redhun

I know, thts whats been holding him back i guess, bcos it involves others. I guess i d just have to accept the fact tht there will nvr be a"together" fr us. Having hard time letting him go

Time will heal and you willl find the right guy for you.....

wally888 · #27 08-01-2013, 10:26 AM

Most men will feel guilty, but will anyone regretted doing this

SammyNewbie · #28 08-01-2013, 10:45 AM

I still got mixed feelings about it.

Sometimes I wish I did not get in, cause I did spend alot of money on it. But I can't deny that some of the sex was really good. Heh.

freeneasy168 · #29 08-01-2013, 10:58 AM

Man will always be man, no matter how guilty we feel if given a chance we still do it. Can't understand y

redhun · #30 08-01-2013, 12:45 PM

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Originally Posted by ah rat

Sis redhun,do u treat him as FB

Of course not! I respect him a lot! We hav not even held hands, but with him, theres so much connection n chemistry. Its like first love feeling. I m just saying tht, i m willing to go further wth him if he wants, i wont want him to leave his spouse. But only after i divorce, but he doesnt want, he has his morals i guess.