Current gf work as FL in the past

[vincentlim81]

bro just start a new topic what will one feel if his current girlfriend used to work as a fl in the past...no offence

[nycaloth66]

wah don't think i can take it. It will always bug me.....besides one of my seniors here in China dated a local chinese FL who quit to be with him, but whenever he is out of town, she will go back to soliciting again..why? I don't know..so i don't think i can ever really fully accept or trust a ex-fl...afterall easy money is always soo tempting. Just my personal opinion.

[Cytan7]

I dun think i can take it. Dunno when will be wearing the 'green hat'.

I have a unique situation. My current GF was a FL before. But you know something, I love her and I dont care. Past is past, present is now, future is ours.

[casabianca]

My ex GF is now an FL. Sigh.

even i don't hv a gf or ex gf doing FL...i can't take it

[vincentlim81]

wah don't think i can take it. It will always bug me.....besides one of my seniors here in China dated a local chinese FL who quit to be with him, but whenever he is out of town, she will go back to soliciting again..why? I don't know..so i don't think i can ever really fully accept or trust a ex-fl...afterall easy money is always soo tempting. Just my personal opinion.


could it be she got problems in cash?
i mean short of money so she do it part-time

[vincentlim81]

I have a unique situation. My current GF was a FL before. But you know something, I love her and I dont care. Past is past, present is now, future is ours.


wow u have found someone u really love thats good news.

[vincentlim81]

no need to sign .... its ex not now ma..

[JWNY]

Some poeple can accept, some can't

How to see a future with a lady, if you can't forget her past?

JWNY

[tita]

Hopefully not!! I can,t take it..

[devilboy1978(2)]

There's a saying "can take a chicken 2 become wife,
but nv take a wife 2 become chicken"..FL will eventually
get married someday..So its up 2 individual..Some can
accept,some cant..2 me,if i reali love her,n she used 2 b
in tis trade,as long as she doesnt go bk 2 tis trade,i wun mind..
Juz my own opinion..

[junkie2807]

I do not have a gf who was or is a WL but I do know know of a few people who are with a WL. After coming together with a buddy of mine, this particular girl has since stopped "working" & returned to school to pursue a degree. Not all my friends are handsome or rich, but everyone has strong determination to make their relationships work. Initially, I was afraid my friends would get hurt, after hearing all the horror stories about money & emotions being cheated. I told them, no matter what happens, I've got their back.

All I want to say is, know what you want. If the feeling is right, just go with the flow. Do not be too bothered by how other people feel about it because your own happines, both present & furture is in your hands.

If you do not try, you will never know how it will turn out. Even though it might not work out for out & end up getting hurt if you try, but if you give up at the start, it will definitely not work. So take a chance.

Singaporeans, in particular the chinese, do not have big enough hearts to accept WL as normal girls who chose this path at the moment, but why let this fact stop you from being the first few who dare to something hat nobody else dared.

Obstacles only get you & bring you down when you lost sight of your final goal.

Cheers

[casabianca]

Originally Posted by vincentlim81

no need to sign .... its ex not now ma..

Easy for you to say. How you feel, when you find out your GF is selling her body? The same body you loved? The girl that gave you her virginity? Big sigh my friend, you dont understand.

[bluenuts]

I agree wif what bro junkie2807 says.
What she is/was b4 do count but what she'll become while with u matters most.
It won't be easy, damn tough, almost extreme i muz say.
Juz speaking fm personal experience.